Julia Abdulova personal life today. Yulia Miloslavskaya told KP about the problems and disputes surrounding the actor's inheritance. Fight for a happy life

The famous actor Alexander Abdulov died in 2008 from lung cancer. In 2018, he would have turned 65 years old - numerous fans, friends and colleagues still miss the artist, but his death brought the most pain, of course, to relatives and friends. Abdulov's wife, Yulia, never married, and devotes her whole life to raising her little daughter, who is already 11 years old.

Zhenya Abdulova is very similar to her father and is going to devote her life to cinema. She knows her dad only from films and numerous stories of loved ones - she was only 8 months old when he died. Julia sees a copy of her husband in her daughter and is proud of the girl, but she is often silent about the personal, because she still has not recovered from her cruel loss.

In honor of the anniversary of Abdulov to him and the secrets of his life, programs were released on domestic TV and documentaries revealing to the public a lot interesting details about the life of the actor, about his personal experiences, career, family and illness.

Abdulova became a guest of the Tonight program. The woman has been a non-public person for ten years. She rarely appears in public and does not reveal anything about herself at all. The revelations of Abdulov's wife were dedicated only to her husband, whose death came as a complete surprise to her - everyone was sure that for the sake of his daughter and wife, for the love of life and profession, Abdulov would overcome a terrible disease.

Abdulova recalls with a smile how her husband cried from the news that he would become a father. Numerous novels of the actor, who was known as a womanizer of the domestic cinema, did not bring him heirs, informs Rosregistr. Only after meeting Yulia did he settle down and at 55 he became a dad.

“We were then on the set, and I decided to find out what is happening with my body. I did a test, and then showed it to Sasha. He looked so attentively, asked if he understood everything correctly. And then he sat down and wept for joy. He was incredibly happy, because the child became a real gift of fate for him.

According to Abdulov's wife, the actor was very gentle with his daughter. He fought at the time terrible diagnosis and literally promised that he would not leave his family, because he dreamed of a safe harbor almost all his life. He dreamed of seeing how his daughter would grow up and what path she would choose in life, but, unfortunately, the disease turned out to be stronger.

The girl also appeared in the studio of the program. She is purposeful and enjoys sports, but dreams of connecting herself with cinema. She reviewed all the films with the participation of her father - most of all she liked "Magicians".

"I play soccer. Now I am the only girl in the team. But in the future I want to become either an actress, or a director, or a cameraman. I really like it"

Abdulova recalled with a smile her acquaintance with the artist, first dates and romantic moments - Alexander knew how to look after beautifully and did not stop being attentive all four years happy cancer, until death. The memories caused a lump in the woman's throat, but she burst into tears almost at the end of the program, when her husband's favorite song sounded.

Long time after the death of her husband, Yulia and her daughter lived outside the city, but now she has moved to Moscow, because the girl attends numerous circles and sections, goes to good school and leads an active social image life.

There were problems with money after the death of her husband - friends and colleagues helped the family, and Yulia even had to sell all the jewelry donated by her husband. Subsequently, Julia entered into inheritance rights and life got better, but it’s impossible to say that the artist left behind untold wealth - according to Julia, Alexander was never thrifty and always indulged himself and his family with waste on pleasant little things.

He helped a lot of friends and strangers, and believed that you need to live every day as if it were your last.

Abdulova communicates well with her husband's mother - her grandmother is always waiting for her granddaughter to visit and always tries to pamper her.

Julia herself is no longer acting in films - after the death of her husband, she became interested in astrology and this is what helps her to periodically forget herself and move away from sad memories. A woman devotes her whole life to raising her daughter.

"She's a 100% dad. Zhenya looks so much like Sasha! If you look at the photos of Sasha and Zhenya, you can immediately see whose daughter this is. Zhenya has a good Abdulovsky potential. She can't sit still, just like Sasha. Zhenechka is always on the move: she shoots short films-plots for her video channel, invents some stories, tells them, communicates and easily finds mutual language with people, - Irina Dmitrakova, a friend of the Abdulov family, told teleprogramma.pro. - Zhenya is a good kind girl. She has no star disease. This is happiness. Julia does not attend secular parties, does not promote herself in the name of her husband, this is Yulia's charm.

Once Abdulova admitted in an interview that her daughter just wants to marry her a second time, because even in her young age feels the sadness and loneliness of the mother. But while the woman is violently resisting, she simply does not imagine that she can fall in love again the way her husband loved.

On the birthday of Alexander Abdulov, his widow and friends will meet to remember the actor. And we remember history last love Alexander Gavriilovich. Wife Julia brings up only daughter actor Zhenya - the girl is already 10 years old. Her dad, a people's artist, passed away nine years ago. And now Yulia Abdulova constantly remembers her husband: “The best and strongest! Darling! Thank God that they remember and love! I did not see such a force that Sasha had among the environment "...

About the first meeting

Everywhere they say that Sasha first saw me at a film festival, but this is not so, - Yulia Abdulova said in an interview with Andrey Malakhov. - We met when we flew in a common company to Kamchatka to fish, I was with ex-husband... On the first date, Sasha invited me to Odessa - after filming in St. Petersburg, he flew to Moscow, changed clothes and rushed to Odessa for one day, where we celebrated the old New Year. Its director Lena was then very angry and said: “Why on earth are we flying to Odessa, who is there to break loose for a day for her sake?” ...

Yulia's ex-husband was smart, successful, handsome man. “But not mine - too cold, or something, but I have always lived with feelings ...” Abdulova confessed. Even then, during the first meeting in a common company, the woman felt that the actor was a person of the same hot temperament as she was. After that very first meeting, Abdulov began to call, offer to meet and escaped for one day to Odessa, where Yulia was resting. After that meeting, the woman flew to Moscow, packed her things and left her husband ...

Yulia's parents were worried about their daughter and did not immediately accept her relationship with famous artist: Dad didn't even talk to her for a few years. Reproaches that the woman coveted a successful actor and his wealth surprised Yulia, because she was from a wealthy family. The chosen one of the actor said that Abdulov, when they met, had a more modest standard of living than hers, and she more expensive than gifts there were mutual feelings, passion and mind of the future husband.

About relationships

Together the couple spent four happy years. Since Abdulov was a holiday man, he arranged surprises for his beloved woman. Once on Yulia's birthday on tour in Sochi (a woman accompanied him on business trips), Alexander agreed with the owner of the water park and it was closed to visitors - they set the table and the actor arranged a candlelight celebration for his wife and their guests.

He gave gifts, beautifully looked after, the couple practically never parted. Yulia Abdulova admitted: “I have never been alone in my life - I was easily carried away, got married easily, without hesitation, then left. Everything before Sasha was easy and simple for me. And with him - differently, for real.

... In one of the clinics in Tel Aviv, where Alexander Abdulov was examined, in the ward he celebrated his daughter's birthday with his friends and wife - Zhenya was then six months old. Abdulov asked Alexander Oleinikov to bring pork stew and black bread from Russia - he feasted and decided to turn on the TV. There at that moment they showed a football match between Lokomotiv and Spartak - the players took to the field in T-shirts with portraits of their favorite actor. Alexander Gavrilovich could not hold back his tears ...

Almost 10 years have passed since that moment, this spring "Spartak" became the champion of Russia in football and a flower bed appeared on the grave of a devoted fan of the football club with an inscription in red and white flowers "Sasha, we are champions!"

... Six months before the death of the actor in July, his daughter Zhenya was baptized - many guests gathered. “Sashka looked at me intently and said:“ You are the little mistress of a big house, ”Yulya Abdulova later recalled in an interview. And so it happened. The widow of the actor is busy raising her daughter. Zhenya goes to school, attends many circles. Julia does not accept numerous filming offers - she only agrees to those projects in which Zhenya herself wants to participate. The girl starred in a music video, in feature film"Love and Sax".

"She's a 100% dad. Zhenya looks so much like Sasha! If you look at the photos of Sasha and Zhenya, you can immediately see whose daughter this is. Zhenya has a good Abdulovsky potential. She can't sit still, just like Sasha. Zhenechka is on the move all the time: she makes short films for her video channel, invents some stories, tells them, communicates and easily finds a common language with people, - Irina Dmitrakova, friend of the Abdulov family, told teleprogramma.pro. - Zhenya is a good kind girl. She has no star disease. This is happiness. Julia does not attend secular parties, does not promote herself in the name of her husband, this is Yulia's charm.

The whole life of Yulia Abudlova is subordinated to Zhenya, the personal life of the widow is not arranged. A new meeting did not happen, besides, it is rather difficult to find a second such “one hundred percent man” - this is how Julia speaks of her husband.

Photo: frame "Tonight", Channel One.

Lyudmila Alexandrovna Abdulova lives in the Ivanovo region, she always looks forward to visiting her daughter-in-law with her granddaughter Zhenya.

I have always been proud of Sasha. Because, however, he is very good, kind, he will give his last, ”she said in an interview with the Tonight program. - I never said that with health ... In the hospital, I asked to come home on New Year's Eve, I felt, apparently, that he was going to say goodbye. Standing by the window, I went up: “Sasha, what are you looking at there?” “Mom, the car should come. I feel so bad, my heart is beating, and the medicines are left in the hospital, I have to go and take them.” The nanny comes down from the second floor with Zhenya, Sasha took her in his arms, kisses her, and I think to myself: “Lord! This is the last kiss ”... And he loved Yulia very much. We adopted her into our family, she is good. My granddaughter is now in the first place, she came with Yulia, ran, said that she likes it here. Zhenechka, dear, dear girl, I love you madly, please come.

Yulia Abdulova says that she has established a wonderful relationship with Sasha's mother. After the death of Alexander Abdulov's brother Robert, Lyudmila Alexandrovna lives with his wife Alya. Julia visits her mother-in-law together with Zhenya, sometimes they are accompanied by the daughter of the actor's middle brother. Everyone notes how little Zhenya looks like a grandmother - not only outwardly, but the girl’s character is the same - imperious, firm.

After the death of her husband, Yulia Abdulova was forced to sell all the jewelry that her husband gave her. But after she entered into inheritance rights, the financial problems were resolved. This is what she said in an interview. And in another she also said that the friends of Alexander Abudlov at that time allocated a certain amount to them and Zhenya for life.

The widow admitted that the actor did not save money "for a rainy day" - he lived for his own pleasure, after touring with an entreprise in the regions he could rent a yacht with his own money and arrange a holiday for colleagues. Gathering guests, he never offered to chip in, he paid for everything himself.

“Sasha's salary was increased 2 years before his death, he received four and a half thousand dollars in the theater ... - the actor's widow Yulia Abdulova said in an interview. - Sasha was no businessman. Even on the films that he made himself, he did not earn a penny, as I understand it, he made pictures for his own pleasure. It was difficult to call them business projects. Sasha, of course, thought to make money on this, but something did not work out. He worked a lot: in the theater from morning to evening, wrote scripts at night, thought about how to make a film ... He rarely refused to shoot. For example, once it was inconvenient for him to refuse a director he knew, when he invited him to shoot some kind of picture, Abdulov was promised only one and a half thousand dollars for the work.

Abdulov helped both friends and strangers - he did a lot of charity work.

After the death of her husband, Julia took up astrology, graduated from the Pavel Globa Institute - this hobby helped her to distract herself.

Zhenya Abdulova. Photo: Larisa Kudryavtseva ("Express newspaper").

“When Sasha left, my life stopped,” says Yulia Abdulova, the widow of the actor. - These five years without him, I didn’t seem to live, but watched a dream that never ended. As if all this - Sasha's illness, his departure, life without him - did not happen to me ... "

- Julia, we meet with you in a Moscow apartment. But you loved your dacha in Vnukovo so much, where everything is permeated with the spirit of Abdulov ...

Yes, all these years we lived with our daughter outside the city and only recently moved to Moscow.

We have a very good cottage - fresh air, quiet and comfortable, nearby Kindergarten ik - the most common, village. You can't do better for a child. But in next year daughter will go to school. This is a very responsible and difficult period in a child's life. So that for my daughter life in large team did not become stressful, I prepare it in advance. Gave Zhenya to preparatory group- again, in an ordinary, municipal kindergarten ... By the way, my daughter categorically does not like urban housing. Zhenya declares: “I don’t want to live here - it’s crowded here. Let's go back to the country." And the apartment is normal, big. I have to explain that there are families where mom, dad and three children live in the same room. But it's hard for her to get it. And in the store, like all children, Zhenya starts moaning: "Buy this, and this, and this." And I tell her that she has a million toys and she doesn’t need another bear.

I suggest: “Stop at one thing: a bear, a doll or children's cosmetics ...” And she has tears in her eyes - after all, making a choice is always difficult. But I teach my daughter to do it. I do not want to indulge all her desires, because in our time it is so easy to spoil a child.

Does Zhenya understand that her father was a famous actor?

Of course she watches his films. And when she was two years old, she watched his film for hours The Bremen Town Musicians» 2000. But for her, this person on the screen is primarily her dad, not a star. Sasha left when Zhenya was nine months old. But my daughter has some vague memories of him. For example, she remembers one Sasha's shirt, in which he held her in his arms ... Zhenya is very similar to her father.

The same leader and instigator, like Sasha. In the kindergarten, he protects the kids all the time, resolves some situations so that everything is “fair”. At photo shoots, she constantly gushes with ideas. She is bored just following someone's commands, and she directs herself, offers something of her own. And she is also as hyperactive as Sasha was, always rushing somewhere. This year, my friend Oksana Korostyshevskaya and her three daughters and I went on vacation to Turkey. So my heart sank when Zhenya jumped into the pool - a “bomb”, with wild cries. My daughter finds extremes everywhere, she is absolutely fearless - like Sasha ... In order to put Zhenkin's seething energy in the right direction, I take her to choreography. Last year she enrolled her in the Loktevsky Ensemble, but Zhenya did not like it there - either she was still small, or the discipline was too tough there.

Basically, they quit. In this - we tried dancing again and ... the process began. In a white bathing suit, in Czechs, Zhenya is very funny. Especially against the background of other girls - thin, with thin legs. My "inch" is large and tall. And this year, Zhenya began to study at the theater studio.

Do you dream of your daughter becoming an actress?

Not at all, although she has both artistry and charisma. But I know too well how hard life is public people. It is only from above that she is beautiful, shiny. So she goes to the studio and dances for general development... Recently, Zhenya was invited to the gathering of the troupe in "Lenkom" - there was an idea to introduce her to one children's role. It's very nice to see good relations to Zhenechka Sasha's "second home", as her husband always called this theater ...

When my daughter saw dozens of cameras and heard the clicking of cameras, she - always so lively - got scared, almost burst into tears. After the words of Mark Anatolyevich Zakharov: “Evgenia Abdulova is present in the hall. Get up, please, ”the daughter grabbed the chair and categorically refused to get up. Zhenya was so looking forward to this day, I prepared her, said that we would go to the theater where dad worked. And then I got lost...

- What role was offered to Zhenya?

Little, in the play "Royal Games". One rehearsal has already taken place. In the first "double" Zhenya did everything right. And the second time she suddenly refused to go on stage, she remained backstage.

It turned out that my daughter didn’t see me in the hall and was frightened: “I was so hoping that you would support me, but you disappeared ...” And I left the hall so as not to disturb her, not to embarrass ... If nothing happens with this performance it will work, I won't be upset. Everyone has their own path, and I do not want to push my daughter into actresses. Although Sasha's mother would be very pleased if her granddaughter continued the family dynasty. Just recently, my grandmother looked at Zhenya and said: “I am very worried that my granddaughter will be large. Sasha was tall, you are rather big, so the child turned out like that. And with a large growth, it is very difficult for an actress to play in the theater.

- What is your relationship with your mother-in-law? The press wrote a lot about your conflict, that you cannot divide houses and apartments ...

I have a wonderful relationship with Sasha's mother.

Recently Zhenechka and I and Sasha's niece Ira (this is the daughter of Sasha's middle brother Volodya) went to Ivanovo for her birthday - Lyudmila Alexandrovna turned 92 years old. She was really looking forward to the arrival of her granddaughter - they hadn’t seen each other for a year - she didn’t let Zhenya away from her, she looked at her all the time, cried: “How she looks like Sasha ...” And I smile: “Yes, she looks like you. Both appearance and character. Both of you have it Nordic, firm, domineering ... ”As for the conflict, the situation was obvious, everyday. When only Robert remained alive of the three sons of Lyudmila Alexandrovna, she, as a mother, first of all supported his interests. Which is generally understandable. And she preferred to live with him, and not with us ... Now Robert is gone, the mother-in-law remained with her daughter-in-law Alya. And Zhenechka and I come to visit her.

- Yulia, you are young. beautiful woman. Almost five years have passed since the death of your spouse. Did you try to arrange your personal life?

You are just like my daughter, who dreams of marrying me. (Laughs.) For Zhenya, this is the number one task, she constantly asks: “Well, when ?! I introduced you to one driver, then to another. But you don’t like anyone ... ”The fact is that she dreams of a brother or sister, so she is looking for a husband for her mother. He worries: “I will grow up soon, but no one will appear for me.” And I laugh it off: “Let's wait and see ...” I did not take a vow of celibacy. It's just that now my whole life is subordinated to Zhenya, to her interests. Plus, I have a very high bar. In my life I have met few real - absolute, one hundred percent - men. Sasha was like that - absolutely reliable, who can solve everything.

This is the standard of a man, in our time rare, like a fossil. That is why it is very difficult to find someone like that. Yes, I'm not looking - I only communicate with close friends. In addition, it is impossible to “organize” such a meeting. It's a matter of chance: either it happens or it doesn't. So it was with Sasha ...

- Before meeting Alexander Gavrilovich, you were probably in love with the artist Abdulov - like thousands of girls in our country?

And here it is not. It was my girlfriend Natasha who was crazy about him ... Years passed, my friend stayed in Odessa, I moved to Moscow. We rarely spoke. And so I call her: "Natasha, I'm getting married." She was delighted: “Great! And for whom? - “For Abdulov ...” There is silence in the receiver, and then Natasha says with joking resentment: “Actually, Abdulov was my topic ...”

Yeah, I didn't expect that either. At that time I had a husband - intelligent, smart, educated, handsome. wonderful person but...not mine. Too cold, or something, but I have always lived with feelings. I felt that our marriage was doomed - the soul was in discord. Although outwardly everything was fine. When I met Abdulov (we crossed paths in the same company, it was in the Far East), I immediately felt - this is my man, hot, temperamental. We were next to each other at the same table, I looked at him, and suddenly a picture flashed before my eyes: Sasha and I have a family, a child is a son. I thought and was surprised: "Some kind of nonsense." Because Sasha was a man of a completely different circle. And he, by the way, felt it - as if he was afraid of me. However, when after Far East I went to Odessa, Sasha started calling me.

He called to St. Petersburg, where he was filming at that moment. I was dumbfounded by such pressure, I say: “You need to - fly in yourself ...” And then Sasha told his director Lena Chuprakova: “We are flying to Odessa - we have just ahead of the day off.” Lena, with whom we later became friends, recalled: “Then I hated you. Who is she, this Yulia, that the people's artist breaks off the set because of her? From Odessa, I returned to Moscow, packed my things and told my husband that we would no longer live together ...

- How did your environment perceive your novel?

Many did not accept. For example, my parents. They were terribly worried: “An artist in our family?! You are always drawn somewhere in the wrong direction ... ”Father did not even talk to me for several years. And Sasha's fans took me with hostility: “Half the country ran for Abdulov, and he married this one.

Yes, she is a witch - she bewitched him! .. ”And how they loved to reproach me for commercialism: they say, I coveted the position, apartment, cottage, car of a popular artist. And I never dreamed of entering the artistic circle - all this "gloss" is alien to me. And to be honest, by the time we met, Sasha had a much more modest standard of living than I did. My dad is a successful oil businessman, my stepfather is famous journalist, uncle - Vitaly Meshin - long years led one of largest enterprises in the country, the Nikolaev Alumina Refinery. So by the end of the law school in Odessa, I already had an apartment in Moscow, a car. Maybe that's why I didn't look for a man with a big pocket. One friend once told me: “Why don’t you find yourself an oligarch?!

When you have a lot of money, everything else will stop worrying you ... "I answered:" Is it possible to kill life to get money? When to live? No, I need feelings, emotions, passion ... ”Sasha had all this in abundance, besides, he was smart - and this is the most erotic thing in a man. But there was no special wealth.

- And what about the famous dacha in Vnukovo?

The house, which haunts many, at the time of our meeting was a ruin, upholstered with clapboard. Sasha was very fond of his dacha, he was proud that on this foundation there used to be a small house in which Faina Ranevskaya lived. He constantly expanded the building, completed it, but somehow chaotically. And to bring comfort to him, Sasha's hands did not reach. I remember when I came here for the first time, I was amazed that a terrible iron lampshade hung in the dining room, and the dining table was covered with an ordinary flowered oilcloth!

However, this did not in the least prevent large companies of Sasha's friends from gathering at the dacha and having fun from the heart ... When I became pregnant with Zhenya, we urgently started at the dacha overhaul. The most amazing thing is that it was from the new nursery on the second floor that the facade became symmetrical, the house acquired a finished rectangular shape ... After Sasha's death, I decided to leave the dacha for Zhenya. Because here is her world - she grew up here. And here the spirit of her father was preserved.

- Julia, how did it happen that Abdulov's standard of living - People's Artist, superstars - was lower than yours ... - Yes, Sasha worked very hard, plowed for wear and tear.

For two recent years He only had two days off! But decent money began to be paid to theater artists only recently. In addition, the husband took great pleasure in making all sorts of surprises for his friends. Everyone knew his generosity and scope ... Of course, sometimes the toad choked me: my husband works so much, wanders around the country, but does not bring the fee home. And Sasha kept laughing: “We need to make people a holiday!”

- Did he spoil you with gifts?

Yes, he gave all sorts of pleasant little things, and amazing jewelry, the cost of which exceeded his capabilities. But otherwise he could not. True, after Sasha's death, I gradually sold all the jewelry. Zhenya and I had to live on something ... And what holidays he arranged for me!

Once we went with his entreprise to Sochi. The tour coincided with my birthday. Sasha agreed with his friend, the owner of the water park, and he closed it to visitors. Tables were laid for our company, candles and lanterns were lit, and we sat until the morning ... In the few years that we were together, there were a lot of such surprises. Sasha himself was a man-holiday.

- The more unexpected for everyone was his rapid departure from life ...

Yes, even a year before death everything was fine. I was pregnant, but I felt great and therefore continued to travel with Sasha to the shooting, on tour. In the seventh month, right after the New Year, we flew to China, to the island of Hainan. There, for Russian tourists, Sasha was shown an entreprise, Larisa Dolina, Alexander Rosenbaum and Andrei Makarevich gave concerts.

It was a very fun trip, we took a lot of pictures. In those photos, Sasha is so strong and handsome. No one could have thought that soon all this would end ... Eight months later (Zhenechka was already almost six months old), Sasha left for the Crimea to shoot. I went with him. At night, my husband became ill, and he was taken to the hospital ... The most difficult operation walked for almost six hours. The surgeon turned out to be a magician… In memory of the day when Sasha was so successfully operated on, I kept a tear-off calendar. I thought that all the terrible things were over, that Sasha had taxied on white stripe. After all, even the day of the operation fell on the 17th, which Sasha considered lucky for himself, along with the numbers 18 and 21 (by the way, our Zhenya was born on March 21 at 18.17). But everything turned out differently ... The surgeon who performed the operation advised Sasha to do an examination upon his return to Moscow: "I have a suspicion of oncology."

We went to Israel. Our friends decided to support Sasha and also flew to Tel Aviv. Zhenya just turned six months old. It was celebrated right in the hotel room at the clinic, the table turned out to be original. Sasha suddenly really wanted stewed meat and black bread. And he asked Sasha Oleinikov to bring all this. He, fearing to run into endless questions from the Israeli customs, nevertheless complied with the request ... We set the table. The setting is surreal: Israel, clinic, stewed pork. At some point, Sasha turned on the Russian channel. And on the screen are two football teams- "Lokomotiv" and "Spartak" - in T-shirts with portraits. We took a closer look - and Abdulov is on them! We are stunned, we do not understand anything. Maybe it was Oleinikov who recorded a certain plot and put the disc on unnoticed by us?

And then we see: no, live! It is the players who support Abdulov in such a way: they say, we are with you. And Sasha at that moment had such a big tear running down her cheek ... Then they raised a toast to Zhenechkin's birthday, and Sasha suddenly looked at his watch: “Guys, it's 18.17. Zhenya was born at that time. In general, sheer mysticism, miracles ... Sasha's last day, January 3, 2008, I remember as if in a fog. Sasha was in the hospital, he became ill early in the morning. I called emergency room. The doctors came and first of all attacked me: “Get out of the ward!” And they themselves were confused, running around Abdulov, fussing: “Alexander Gavrilovich, Alexander Gavrilovich ...” I look through the crack in the door, I see all this and shout: “What are you hysterical, do something!” Then everything calmed down, and the young doctor asked the elderly: “There is a wife outside the door, what should she say?”

And he answers so indifferently: “Well, what can I say to her? He died and died ... ”I will not forget this calm voice until the end of my life. I forgot the face of the doctor, but I recognize the voice from a thousand. She went out into the corridor, called Orlov: “Lesha, that’s it ... Call Sasha’s mom - I can’t ...”

- Do you think your husband had a presentiment of his death?

I don’t know ... When Sasha found out that he would become a father, he had an idea fix: he wanted to move to big apartment in the center, close to both Lenkom and Zhenya's school. The officials promised to help: Sasha rents out our old living space to the city and receives a new one with a small surcharge. He already felt completely unwell, but still wandered around for some people to "solve the issue." I said: "God is with her, with the apartment, - you feel bad."

But he got up and went. He probably wanted to finish this topic to the end so that his family would be settled. But he didn't. I didn't call anyone after that. because new flat without Sasha - why do I need her ...

- Having experienced unimaginable mental pain, people come out of stress in different ways. Where did you find salvation?

Astrology saved me. When Sasha died and I did not understand why I should live on, I went to see an astrologer. We talked for a long time, and she advised me to find Master. And soon, by chance, I met Pavel Pavlovich Globa. Now I study at his institute. I don't know if astrology will become my profession. The main thing is that she helped me survive.

- Numerous friends of Abdulov supported you?

Sasha's closest friends did not disappear even after his death. And I am very grateful to them for this. We meet at our dacha on January 3, on the day of Sasha's death, and on May 29, on his birthday. But these are already other gatherings. And it's not that instead of two hundred people come thirty. Well, Sasha always said that friendship is a concept around the clock, what is it big job which takes time and effort. The main thing is that Abdulov's spirit is gone. After all, Sasha was the center of our company, its battery. And now he is gone, and everything has “blown away”, it has become somehow insipid and boring ... Abdulov was not only a brilliant artist, but, above all, an amazing person. Sasha united the most different people everyone was comfortable and warm next to him. And now we all miss him so much.

- They say that time heals. Did you finally get over the loss?

Hard to say. Since then terrible day almost five years have passed. All this time the world existed separately, and I - separately. I did not live, but quietly went crazy, plunging headlong into boundless, inescapable longing and despair. It was so hard for me that for the first two years I could not look at my daughter without tears. When I look, my heart breaks - Zhenya is very similar to dad. I had to entrust the care of her to the nanny, a wonderful woman. And she herself was tormented by a sense of guilt in front of her daughter that I did not give her tenderness, love (and these thoughts still gnaw at me). I could not give them then, because I did not want to live. I often thought about how to quickly end these unbearable mental suffering. After all, life without Sasha has lost its meaning ... Now I seem to have coped with the situation, but not completely - I still can’t watch Sasha’s films. We had such strong connection that it did not stop even after his death.

If I have difficult situation, my strength is running out - after all, I have a lot of everyday worries - I mentally ask Sasha to help me. And in some magical way, the problem is solved ... For a long time, I dreamed of Sasha. Often these were prophetic dreams. Once I see him surrounded by people, and next to him someone is digging the earth - a big hole. And Sasha says: "I'm in charge here, I have to prepare and decide everything." The dream is both strange and scary. And three days later, our friend Anar from Baku died unexpectedly... But six months ago, these dreams stopped. In that last time Sasha was with a huge bouquet of white roses. He smiled: “These flowers are for you. And I have to leave ... ”And since then he no longer dreams, as if he let me go, calmed down. Maybe he sees that his "little mistress of the big house" copes with everything. That's what he called me...

It was six months before his death, we were going to celebrate Zhenechkin's christening. As always, many guests arrived, large tables were set on the veranda. The weather is great - July is in the yard. And suddenly Sasha looked at me intently and somehow very seriously said: "You are the little mistress of a big house." I didn’t understand what he was talking about ... And on that day, Zhenechka’s godfather, Sasha, a close friend of Lesha Orlov, offered to celebrate in a chamber ensemble. Like, the holiday is intimate, family. But Sasha objected: “No, let everyone come. Maybe we'll never get together like this again." Neither I nor Lesha understood what he was talking about. We decided: well, Sasha just loves big companies collect at home. And six months later, when he was gone, we remembered these words, which turned out to be prophetic. After all, in that large line-up we really gathered for the last time ...

I have never been alone in my life. Easily carried away, easily got married, just as, without hesitation, then left. Everything that I had before Sasha was easy and simple for me. And with him - otherwise, for real. Once, in my youth, a friend asked me: “What is love?” Then I did not know the answer. Now, after Sasha's death, I know. Love is when you are ready to sacrifice your life in order for a person to be healthy and stay alive. If there was such an opportunity, I would not hesitate to give my life for Sasha ... It was about such Great love I have always dreamed. Not about career, publicity, money, but about love. Therefore, I can call myself absolutely happy man- I had it. Despite the fact that Sasha let me down a lot: he did not like me, did not live long ...

On May 29, Abdulov would have turned 60 years old. He left on takeoff. Not only in creativity, but also in personal life. The young widow Julia remained, who gave birth to Alexander Gavrilovich long-awaited daughter Zhenya. When Abdulov died, his daughter was not even a year old. Now Zhenechka is 6 years old, she is like two drops of water similar to her famous father.

The widow of the actor Yulia Abdulova told KP about her and about her personal plans.

Daughter chooses her own profession

- Julia, is Zhenya going to continue acting dynasty Abdulov? We heard that Mark Zakharov (the artistic director of the Lenkom Theatre. - Ed.) is not opposed to introducing your daughter to some kind of children's role ...

In "Lenkom" there are no children's performances. There is one single child role in " Royal Games"With one phrase. I can't say if Zhenya will ever participate in this performance.

We haven't thought about it yet. Zhenya is a normal child, absolutely unstellar. He goes, like all children, to kindergarten. If she is destined to become an actress, then she will grow up and become. I do not want to push the child into all kinds of performances, films and so on now. Moreover, the theater is a responsible thing. This is not even a movie where he came, filmed and left.

Theater is not a joke. It seems to me that such things should be approached with full responsibility. I do not want to put pressure on Zhenya in choosing a profession.

The daughter, for example, believes that she has a talent for drawing. Let her choose her own path.

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You said that you graduated from the school of astrology. Are you currently practicing? What are you realizing yourself in?

I now have one task - to raise a child.

The film about Garin will be finished by another director

Alexander Gavrilovich did not have time to finish the film based on the novel by Alexei Tolstoy "The Hyperboloid of Engineer Garin" (the actor fell ill during filming. - Ed.). Can another director complete his case?

I think yes. Recently there have been people who are interested in this film. Therefore, now we will meet, communicate, maybe something will come of this. But Sasha did not shoot a film about Garin in its purest form. There is a completely different, modern plot, even the characters are different. Given that Sasha has already filmed a lot of material, it can turn out to be a good film.

Five years have passed since the departure of Alexander Gavrilovich. How is your personal life now? Is there a beloved man next to you?

I don't have a personal life, if that's what your readers are interested in. My personal life is my home and my child. I'm not going to get married.

After such a man, it is probably difficult to meet a worthy ...

Such things do not even want to discuss. It's obvious. I feel that Sasha is still with us...

The house in Valdai will become a museum

Do you communicate with Abdulov's mother now?

Oh sure. Lyudmila Alexandrovna will come to Sasha's anniversary at Lenkom, where a memorable evening will take place. Sasha's mother, fortunately, despite her considerable age, feels well.

My grandmother and I communicate regularly. Zhenya looks like her and loves her very much.

Recently, my daughter and I went to visit my grandmother on May 9, congratulated her. In general, everything is fine, because my grandmother is a member of our family.

We live in a house in Vnukovo and are not going to sell it. As for the house in Valdai, it is still in doubt... Some time ago we wanted to sell this hunting lodge, and then changed our minds... Now there is a proposal to make a museum there in memory of Sasha. For now, I don't know what we'll decide.

It is a pity to sell this house. I don’t want it to fall into some strange, random hands, because everything there reminds me of Sasha. And the place is gorgeous - Valdai, opposite the monastery ... It would be nice to do something memorable there, our friends and fans of Sasha would be happy to come there. While we think.

The song "Bullfinches" dedicated to Yulia former lover Trofim

On January 3, relatives, friends and numerous fans commemorated Alexander Abdulov on the anniversary of his death. The young widow Yulia MESHINA, who has been living alone with her daughter Zhenya in a country estate in Vnukovo, also remembered him. Friends do not leave Julia in trouble: the widow is surrounded by influential people, wealthy men ready to solve her problems.

After the death of her husband, Julia went out accompanied by different men, which secular reporters instantly attributed to her as lovers. At first they wrote that a woman had an affair with a friend Abdulova businessman Alexey Orlov. He still helps her in business, accompanies her on various trips, supports her in every possible way, but both deny romantic relationships.

Recently, a new rumor has swirled around the widow. Yulia came to the New Year's children's event at Olimpiysky with her daughter Zhenya and accompanied by a respectable gentleman. It turned out to be one of the founders of the Slavneft company Alexander Mukhin. However, there is most likely no intrigue behind their joint publication. The oligarch went to the holiday with his granddaughter - Zhenechka's girlfriend.

- Julia is not averse to getting married again, - one of Meshina's friends told us. - But now she will not go for a mere mortal.

Few people know, but before the wedding with Alexander Abdulov, Yulechka shattered more than one man's heart! Truth, love relationship always turned out to be unusually short for some reason.

Julia used to rely on strong men. In childhood, these were father Nikolai Veniaminovich, who owned a hotel in Paris, and uncle Vitaly Meshin- Director of the alumina refinery in Nikolaev. Happiness collapsed in the dashing 90s. The brothers were charged with embezzlement of $37 million. Vitaly went to jail, and Nikolai divorced his wife and fled to Africa.

Julia does not like to remember this period of her life. As well as about his first unhappy love, which ended in an abortion.

Moscow men

While studying at Odessa University Julia started whirlwind romance ending with a wedding. She was 17, he was -18. The guy was already starting his own business, which wealthy parents helped him run. But early marriage turned out to be short. Julia became pregnant, but her husband was not ready to become a dad. And besides, he took a walk on the side. The girl did not forgive the betrayal and went to Moscow to cousin Xenia. In the capital, she became close friends with the producer Igor Markov, who was engaged in the promotion of an aspiring singer Lera Maskva.

Igor did not consider Yulia a family man, - Elena Meshina's friend told us. - Yes, and he cheated on her with others. And Yulia wanted a reliable support. Relations deteriorated when Markov became addicted to drugs. After a year and a half, Julia left him.

The girl got a job as an office manager to Shabtai Kalmanovich, at that time he was still sponsoring an aspiring singer Zemfira. Constantly communicating with artists, Julia met the singer Trofim.

The next man in her life was the singer Sergey Trofimov, Elena said. - It was to her in 2001 that Trofim dedicated the song "Bullfinches". I know for sure that the lines: “Today I spent the night with my beloved woman” is about Yulia. They had a secret love.

Chansonnier during this period experienced difficult relationship with his first wife Natalya. The wife found out about his affair with Julia and filed for divorce. However, Meshina did not work out with Trofim either. Constant touring and the women surrounding the singer quickly bored her.

The secret behind seven seals

After the death of Abdulov, rumors spread that Zhenya was not his daughter. Many believed. After all, Ksenia Alferova is not his own. Evil envious people chatted as if the actor was completely barren. So, former mistress Abdulova - actress Victoria Lanovskaya once she said: - I didn’t hold a candle, but I give one hundred percent that this is definitely not Sasha’s child. I lived with him for almost two years and unsuccessfully tried to get pregnant, although both he and I were much younger. But Sasha was a wise man. Perhaps all this suited him. Especially when he found out that he would soon die.

There were also rumors that in Odessa, doctors performed in vitro fertilization on Abdulov's wife. But Alexander Gavrilovich doted on his little daughter. True, he did not have long to enjoy family happiness: three years later, the actor was knocked down by cancer.

Julia always left men with her head held high. She didn’t ask them for anything,” Elena says. - As a rule, her relationship did not last more than three years. Who knows if Abdulov had remained alive, whether they would have been together or not. Sasha really loved women.

Valdai heritage

After the death of Abdulov, Yulia found herself in a difficult situation: she needed to pay money to her heirs - Sasha's mother and his brother Robert. She definitely decided that she would not sell the estate in Vnukovo. It was necessary to urgently find $ 1.5 million as compensation for the inheritance.

- Yulia was helped by Sasha's friend Alexei Orlov, - Elena explains. He has his own construction company. When Zhenechka was born, Sasha invited Alexei to become godfather. They were almost relatives, together they owned a house in Valdai, where they came to fish.

Yulia offered to sell the Valdai estate, but Orlov wanted to keep the property.

He helped Yulia and gave the required share to pay the actor's relatives, continues her friend Meshina. - But do not think that Yulia is not going to return this amount. She is - honest man and return everything. She persuaded Alexei to sell the house after all, and with her one-third part she will partially pay him off. However, no one has yet bought the Valdai house.

It is now being sold for seven million rubles, - Roman, the caretaker at Valdai, told us. - I built this house myself: Sasha and I were friends. Before the crisis, it could be sold for nine million, but now the price has been dropped.

Abdulov's mother and brother still could not come to terms with the fact that Yulia got the bulk of the property.

Somehow, after the cemetery, we went to Yulia, - says Robert. - They gave the girl a bicycle, but they didn’t even go into the house. I have never seen such a greedy woman. How can she sell Sasha's inheritance! Our elderly mother Lyudmila Alexandrovna, having learned about this, was very worried.

We asked Yulia Abdulova herself to comment on the rumors hovering around her.

There are no changes in my life,” the widow said. - My daughter Eugenia knows everything about her father. She is very similar to Sasha's mother. Alexey, who helped me with the money, is Sashin and my friend, and rumors do not interest me. I paid off in full with my husband's relatives.