Children of Tsekalo and Milyavskaya. Daughter of Lolita Milyavskaya: life despite the terrible diagnosis of doctors. Son of Toni Braxton

23.06.2019

Singer Lolita Milyavskaya is very worried about her daughter Eva, who has been diagnosed with autism since childhood. The daughter of Lolita Milyavskaya Eva was born prematurely - in the fifth month of pregnancy, weighing 1 kg 200 grams.

The fact is that premature babies have a tendency to various deviations. Even without looking at my daughter, the freak doctor said: “Your child is abnormal, he is a down! " added Lolita. If it were so, believe me, I would say so ... But she does not have Down syndrome - it turned out when she was tested for diapers. We were given a different diagnosis - autism, ”Milyavskaya noted.

Lolita enthusiastically celebrates her every success: she learned to read, recites poetry with expression, sings jazz improvisations. Milyavskaya had a daughter in adulthood - after 35. The singer said that childbirth began in the sixth month of pregnancy. Lolita had to raise the child alone. Alexander Tsekalo, then-husband singer, immediately after the birth of Eva filed for divorce. But later she suddenly declared: Tsekalo has nothing to do with her daughter.

At first, Lolita often reproached Alexander for cowardice. They offered to leave Eva until she got used to her. Lolita found other doctors who made a completely different diagnosis - autism (isolation, psychological illness). Eva, though lagging behind in development, but it has become almost invisible.

“In that difficult period, world-famous professor Andrey Petrukhin, a pediatric neurologist and a member of the Royal Medical Society of Great Britain, helped me. He picked up Evka, who at that time was about a year old, threw her up several times, then put her back in the crib and said:

"Mommy, sleep well, everything is fine with your child."

But, alas, Eva lagged behind her peers in development, shunned them, grew up closed and shy. Lolita's mother, Alla Dmitrievna, constantly studied with the girl, read aloud, took her to music and drawing classes.

Paternity Tsekalo

Lolita broke up with Alexander Tsekalo shortly after the birth of Eva. After that, she did not speak too flatteringly about her relationship with her husband, emphasizing that their union was far from not only perfect, but also from the generally accepted idea of \u200b\u200bthe family. Everyone lived their own life.

Repeatedly, Lolita mentioned not only about Alexander's numerous love interests, but also about several of her novels. In one of the interviews, the singer admitted that ex-husband It has nothing to do with the birth of Eve. The truth about who is the father of Lolita's daughter, the journalists failed to find out.

Milyavskaya said more than once that Tsekalo did not make any decisive efforts to help the sick girl in treatment, education and training. On the other hand, the artist is sure that in Hard time she can rely on Alexander.

“If something happens to me, then Sasha will definitely help my current husband with Eve,” says the singer.

Daughter of Eva Lolita Milyavskaya now

Now Eva lives with her grandparents in Kyiv and does not often see her mother. Lolita Milyavskaya tries not to share photos of her only daughter online. Previously, she didn’t talk about her daughter, so as not to fend off attacks later that she allegedly left Eve to raise her grandparents, who live in Kyiv, and now, so that they would discuss the appearance of their grown daughter less.

"An apple tree from an apple tree! The baby is on vacation! French self study report! I don’t understand anything, maybe not French?!!???✌?” the singer commented on the video.

In the video, Eva performs an excerpt from Patricia Kaas' song Quand Jimmy Dit. The star's fans were delighted: Lolita's subscribers expressed their admiration for her, and wished Eva success in life and that she would not bury her talents.

Recently, in an interview with reporters, the singer said that her daughter has a pronounced ability to foreign languages: she speaks English, German, Ukrainian and is studying French on her own.

The daughter of the famous performer Lolita Milyavskaya, Eva has been a mystery to society for many years. The girl is regularly discussed in the media, giving her the most unimaginable diagnoses. The singer herself rarely comments on her daughter's health, because she does not pay attention to spiteful critics and envious people.

Eva was born in 1998. The audience is very surprised - time flies unnoticed and now the girl will soon turn 20 years old! Despite numerous rumors, Eva never moved to Moscow with her mother - she has been living in Kyiv with her grandmother since childhood and comes to visit her mother only during school holidays.

The girl is fond of learning foreign languages - she knows Russian and Ukrainian, as well as German, English and French. Lolita often boasts of her daughter's success in in social networks, although from time to time she has to fend off the attacks of ill-wishers who are sure that the singer left a sick child for the sake of a career.

Eva Tsekalo - what is sick

Back in 200, after Lolita’s divorce from her husband Alexander Tsekalo, whose last name is the singer’s daughter, it became known that celebrities have an unusual child. Initially, they talked about the diagnosis of "Down's syndrome", but after they called it another - the girl has autism, that is, isolation and deepening in inner world with complete detachment from the outside.

The details of the illness of the daughter of the stars were savored by the press for a long time - Lolita was silent to the last, because she does not consider it necessary to make excuses or prove anything to anyone.

By the way, in 2017, the singer announced that her daughter did not have autism - the diagnosis was not confirmed, but she was in no hurry to tell the press about it. The performer announced such data when she was not allowed to meet with her daughter and mother in Kyiv - the singer was banned from entering Ukraine for her performances in Crimea.

“Dear journalists, you should check information about family members! In particular, mine! My daughter has never had autism! Some idiot posted Her name on a website for kids with this condition. Probably, this happened because of the “hacks”, giving interviews to which, when Evochka was little, I told how some “doctors”, wanting to breed for money, tried to diagnose us. One of the great Russian scientists, Professor Andrey Sergeevich Petrukhin, a specialist in autism, gave his opinion many years ago, and this spring, having met us on vacation, he once again confirmed that he was surprised to see Eva on these lists!

What the girl is really sick of remains unclear, the website informs the portal. Experts say she may have separate view Cerebral palsy, but the singer herself does not tell the diagnoses and medical data. Her daughter is an active girl, studying in regular school together with "healthy children" and many of those intellectual development factor of. She is talented and has specific goals in life - and what else is needed for maternal pride?

Eva Tsekalo is not the daughter of Alexander Tsekalo

Lolita, in rare revelations to the press, once admitted that Eva is not Alexander's daughter and he knows this very well. The singer “worked up” the girl while being married, but the relationship of the spouses then practically came to naught, and therefore she does not feel any guilt for herself. Alexander Tsekalo, while still the spouse of Lolita, admitted without any scandals the fact of the birth of a child from another man and even gave the girl his last name.

At the same time, after a divorce from Lolita with Eva, the man does not maintain contact.

Lolita, in turn, says that she does not accept reproaches in her direction about the fact that she "left her daughter." So the circumstances developed - at one time she faced the problem of earning money for her family, and she decided to fight for herself and the future of her daughter to the bitter end. When she moved to Moscow, she did not take Eva with her, because the mother, the girl's grandmother, could not go with them. The choice is either Eva grows up in the hands of nannies, or her mother is left without a husband and leaves for Lolita in Moscow, or the girl is brought up by a loving happy grandmother, and her mother earns money and maintains a close relationship with her daughter at a distance.

“Eva has the opportunity to be with her grandparents all 11 classes. And when they say that I abandoned my child, I answer that this is one of the wisest actions in my life. Otherwise, it would ruin the life of not only the daughter, but also the mother, who would go after her granddaughter, leaving her husband. Or the child would live here with a nanny - a stranger "

Lolita is now married for the fifth time. Tennis player Dmitry Ivanov is 12 years younger than the singer, but this does not prevent her family from being very happy. Sometimes Lolita, of course, says that she is afraid of losing her husband, who will eventually consider her old or too emotional, but all fears only occasionally oppress the singer - otherwise she is an absolutely happy, accomplished and self-confident woman.

She was always frank with her fans and spoke honestly about her personal relationships with men in interviews. Recall that Lolita was married to Alexander Tsekalo - from him she gave birth special daughter Eve. Despite the fact that the girl's father does not take any part in her life, Milyavskaya does not hold a grudge against him and speaks rather positively about her ex-wife.

Note that Milyavskaya was married five times, but perhaps the most famous marriage Lolita was with Tsekalo.

“When I met Tsekalo, he was married, and I was married. Yes, we committed adultery, I confess. Well, who didn’t? It all resulted in 12 years of a wonderful studio. I am grateful to him for a lot,” admits Lolita.

Their marriages were bursting at the seams, everyone knew that they were together - their romance was discussed even at a party meeting. Tsekalo divorced his wife, and Milyavskaya's husband even lived with him for some time. ex-wife and her new lover.

“Sasha acted like a normal man. The three of us huddled together in the same apartment, Belyaev couldn’t just pick me up and put me out, we had normal relations,” recalls Lolita.

"It only husband from which I took my last name. We have done fictitious marriage and separated after a year. We are still friends with Vitaly and his wife - she is my closest friend," says Lolita.

Milyavskaya notes that the divorce from Tsekalo and the collapse of their creative duet was very painful for her. “I was 37 years old, what was to be done next? Yes, and the breakup of a creative duet is much harder than just the separation of a man and a woman,” says the singer.

After a difficult parting, Milyavskaya soon got into psychiatric clinic She had anemia and fainted every three hours.

"I am grateful to my then lover Arnold Spivakovsky. I was not married. But there were relationships. It was he who took me in his arms to a psychiatric hospital and saved my life," Milyavskaya shares.

She still communicates with Arnold and his current wife. Now Lolita has been happy in a relationship with her young husband Dmitry for eight years.

The singer has an only daughter, Eva, who most time lives in Kyiv with his grandmother. Lolita deliberately left her daughter with her mother, because she did not want to injure the child once again with constant moving. The Network has repeatedly written that Eva has autism. According to Lolita, her daughter is very shy and for a long time could not stand up for herself at all, but there can be no talk of any autism.

“Eva was born a little over a kilogram - she was premature. It’s nothing, it happens. Everyone writes on the Internet that her daughter has autism. Yes, we had developmental delays, my eyesight is worse, hyper-shyness. She could have been offended at school - finally now she has started to snap. She can stand up for herself, she is starting to get used to it. She does not have any disabilities, there is no autism, "says Lolitai

Lolita Milyavskaya admires her daughter in every interview.

The fact is that premature babies have a tendency to various deviations. Even without looking at my daughter, the freak doctor said: “Your child is abnormal, he is a down! " added Lolita. If this were the case, believe me, I would say so ... But she doesn’t have Down syndrome - it turned out when she was tested for diapers. We were given a different diagnosis - autism, ”Milyavskaya noted.

Lolita enthusiastically celebrates her every success: she learned to read, recites poetry with expression, sings jazz improvisations. Milyavskaya had a daughter in adulthood - after 35. The singer said that childbirth began in the sixth month of pregnancy. Lolita had to raise the child alone. Alexander Tsekalo, the then husband of the singer, immediately after the birth of Eva filed for divorce. But later she suddenly declared: Tsekalo has nothing to do with her daughter.

At first, Lolita often reproached Alexander for cowardice.

True, Milyavskaya believes that their divorce was influenced not only by the child, but by fame and money. Who did not give up and did not consider their child to be defective (according to statistics, there is one child with DM per 700 births, and in 90% parents refuse newborns). The fact that something was wrong with the baby, the doctors understood immediately. At first, they thought that she had Down syndrome (only much later, Eve was correctly diagnosed with autism).

Lolita Milyavskaya has a special child...

They offered to leave Eva until she got used to her. Lolita found other doctors who diagnosed a completely different diagnosis - autism (isolation, psychological illness). Eva, though lagging behind in development, but it has become almost invisible.

During that difficult period, Andrey Petrukhin, a world-famous professor, a pediatric neurologist and a member of the Royal Medical Society of Great Britain, helped me. But, alas, Eva lagged behind her peers in development, shunned them, grew up closed and shy.

He picked up Evka, who at that time was about a year old, threw her up several times, then put her back in the crib and said: “Mom, sleep well, everything is fine with your child.” Lolita's mother, Alla Dmitrievna, constantly studied with the girl, read aloud, took her to music and drawing classes.

Among those who proved that SD is not the end of the world at all: politician Irina Khakamada, singer Lolita Milyavskaya and others.

Irina Khakamada, 59 years old

This is today Irina Khakamada, a successful woman, a promising politician and aspiring designer, whose stamina and courage can only be envied.

The woman, according to her confession, was on the verge of life and death, she wanted to leave politics in order to devote herself entirely to raising her daughter. Khakamada almost resigned herself to her daughter's illness, but fate dealt her the next blow - when Masha was six years old, the doctors again diagnosed the girl with a terrible diagnosis - this time "leukemia".

Fans of Lolita Milyavskaya have condemned Alexander Tsekalo for many years for not maintaining a relationship with his daughter Eva. But it turned out that Eve had a different father.

Even the mother of the singer Alla Dmitrievna a few years ago, in an interview with MN, was offended by her former son-in-law. Like, since he married Victoria, sister of Vera Brezhneva, and in new family daughters appeared, I forgot to think about Yevochka. For all the years, a penny did not help.

Neither Lolita nor Alexander Tsekalo commented on the sensitive topic. Only now the artist decided to reveal the truth.

« Tsekalo is not Eva's father, Milyavskaya admitted. - Our relationship with him cracked, I got another one. Sasha knew about it. And he had his own personal life. But when I became pregnant and then gave birth, he nobly registered his daughter as his own. After a while, we finally broke up both on stage and in life.».

Perhaps the artist should have revealed this truth earlier, so that Lolita's fans and even the former mother-in-law (it turns out that she also did not know the truth) would not peck at Alexander Tsekalo for abandoning Eva.

« Apple tree from apple tree! The baby is on vacation! French self study report! I don't understand anything, maybe not French?!???✌️?” the singer commented on the video.

Recently, in an interview with reporters, the singer said that her daughter has a pronounced ability in foreign languages: she speaks English, German, Ukrainian and is studying French on her own.