Stella Baranovskaya died of cancer: Anfisa Chekhova spoke about the last days of the actress's life (photo). With whom will the six-year-old son of the late Stella Baranovskaya stay? Famous journalist and writer Maxim Kotin

Millionaire Maxim Kotin, from whom Stella Baranovskaya gave birth to a son, Danya, does not want to know his child.

A 30-year-old actress who has a son, Danya, from millionaire Maxim Kotin.

As Stella's close friends - and - Baranovskaya loved a beautiful and luxurious life, they said in the studio of the program "Let them talk". Obviously, this at one time and conquered her Maxim - a millionaire from Rublyovka. He rolled the girl in expensive cars, drove to prestigious restaurants and nightclubs.

However, the fairy tale ended for Stella when she found out that she was pregnant. Maxim demanded that the girl have an abortion. At the same time, he said that creating a family is not included in his plans. And later he completely abandoned Stella. He did not want to see her, even when she was seriously ill.

The terrible news about the diagnosis found Baranovskaya in America with her fiancé. According to Larisa Pokhilchuk, a nurse at a hospital in Minnesota, where Baranovskaya turned, the chosen one turned away from the girl when he learned that she had cancer.

"When she was discharged with her mother and Danya, they had nowhere to live. They stayed at my house ... At the same moment she experienced the betrayal of a loved one. The groom did not even lift a finger to help her ... We had several long conversations in the kitchen. What Stella experienced in her 30 years, some do not experience in a hundred years. So many betrayals, so many difficult situations, "the nurse recalled.

Danya is the son of Stella Baranovskaya and Maxim Kotin

Also, Maxim Kotin did not want to recognize his son Danya, whom Baranovskaya gave birth to despite his demand to terminate the pregnancy.

Now Maxim has another girlfriend, she non-publicly told Stella's friends that the "bastard" in the Kotin family will never be recognized. “By the way, even Maxim’s girlfriend wrote:“ I know this story, and all close people know this story, but they consider him illegitimate, so they don’t want to see him, ”said Gordon.

According to Katya Gordon, she sent the guy a photo of both Stella and the child, but Maxim's family refused to communicate in any way.

In turn, Katya Gordon spoke about how she tried to get Stella Baranovskaya's child recognized by his biological father Maxim Kotin, the son of socialite Irina Winter - Dani's grandmother.

The employees of the show “Let them talk” also tried to contact Irina Winter, but the woman replied that she was resting in Venice and refused to talk.

Irina Winter - mother of Maxim Kotin

Stella's friends remembered the persecution of skeptics and enemies that hit the actress on the Web. They believed that the girl was feigning a disease for selfish purposes.

Chekhova noted that Stella tried to provide support to other people who were struggling with serious illnesses. "She always helped. To all the sick. To the very Madina who opposed her, she sent flowers and supported her, listened. They initially talked as friends. After that, Madina, for no reason, suddenly decided to go against her," she said TV presenter.

Also on the talk show, those who knew Stella said that she had a very hard time undergoing chemotherapy and experienced hellish torment, which is why she later refused this procedure.

“Stella has a very high pain threshold, she literally climbed the wall from pain during chemotherapy. She went through six steps, but did not pass the last one, she was in too much pain,” Pokhilchuk said.

It was because of this that Baranovskaya turned to alternative medicine. Shortly before her death, the actress was treated by a healer Akylbek from Kazakhstan. The editors of the program tried to contact the man, but he refused to talk about the treatment of the artist. At the same time, Anfisa Chekhova noted that Stella always noted that after the sessions with him, she had pain, and she could sleep peacefully.

Stella Baranovskaya. "You didn't believe me, but I died." Let them talk

The grandmother of Stella Baranovskaya Lidia Petrovna Kryuchonkova also came to the program. She said that she raised her from the very discharge from the hospital, because the girl's mother worked and she did not have time to raise her daughter. When the grandmother found out about her granddaughter's diagnosis, she was speechless. Now she, like all Stella's relatives, is worried about the fate of her six-year-old son Dani.

"For me, he is the last straw of life, I have to help him, because my daughter is inadequate ... About Dani's father, I know that when he was 10 months old, his father did not refuse him. Maybe he wanted to, but his parents were against it... When she got pregnant, he said: "I'll give you money, have an abortion." But she didn't," Lidia Petrovna shared.

Lydia Kryuchonkova - Stella Baranovskaya's grandmother

At the end of the talk show, Baranovskaya's father appeared - Stanislav Kanteladze. He flew to her funeral from the USA to Moscow. “I don’t know about Stella’s mother, but I think that no parent wants to harm their child. We communicate with her. We have a grandson, we must raise him. First of all, we must agree among ourselves how we will do it to do, this is a very difficult question. Of course, it would be good for a child if he got to America. And he would be brought up there ... I would like to pick him up, but we'll see how we can agree, "said Stella's father.

Stanislav Kanteladze - father of Stella Baranovskaya

In recent days, Stella Baranovskaya was going to file a lawsuit against the father of her son, who is not involved in the upbringing of the child, but did not have time. Now her friends Katya Gordon and Anfisa Chekhova are doing this.

In Russia, after a long battle with cancer, the famous actress Stella Baranovskaya passed away. Ekaterina Gordon announced the last weeks of the star's life.

Gordon met Stella when she needed legal services. It was then that Katya helped draw up Baranovskaya's will and advised the woman on issues of custody of her son Daniel.

“When we became friends and began to trust each other, I held back for a long time so as not to send people around the well-known places who called Stella a profiteer and killed a dying person,” Gordon said. Analyzing her words, we can conclude that the actress Stella Baranovskaya was accused of deception, saying that she falsified certificates and she does not have any disease. Stella's envious people created groups and wrote all sorts of nonsense there about the disease.

Maxim Kotin father of the son of Stella Baranovskaya: major Maxim Kotin

According to Stella's stories, one can understand that a couple of years ago she had a difficult relationship with Maxim Kotin. When little Daniel was born, Stella brought the baby to meet relatives and ask for at least some alimony. But, as she told her friends in horror, grandfather asked the guards "to remove this bastard from the house and not let him in again."

Then the disease was not close and on the horizon, so she managed the first five years of her son's life without outside help and the need to recognize the child. But when she was already in a very sad state, realizing that the child was left with her great-grandmother, who was unable to attend, she decided to start determining paternity - maybe the father would take care of the baby.

Maxim Kotin is the father of the son of Stella Baranovskaya: Katya Gordon's story about the last days of Stella's life

“I wrote to Maxim Kotin, who, according to Stella, is Dani's biological father (they are really very similar). And she wrote to his mother, Irina Wintour, Gordon continues. - She told me that this is the situation, and help is needed. She might not have known that Stella had such a situation, and that she considers Maxim the father of her child. After that, they immediately blocked me, depriving me of the opportunity to write. Although, I could write “you made a mistake, Katya”, or “I don’t know anything about it”, but I just decided to ignore it. Anfisa Chekhova and I sincerely believed that the boy's father would respond. And they even sent pictures where Stella is in a very painful condition. And we had all the medical documents on hand. We periodically took care of the child who watched this terrible picture of the mother dying. The boy was periodically with me, then with Anfisa. Now he is with the singer Zara, where he spent the last few days. We were all puzzled by his fate, according to the site C-ib.ru. I kept wanting a notary to come to her as soon as possible, but it was not so easy, since Stella was in a clinic 80 kilometers from Moscow. At one point, she thought she was on the mend. And so I postponed the notary for later. Although we had already agreed with her a lawsuit to establish paternity and were ready to file it. At the same time, a year ago, the real persecution of Stella began. Since she was accused of not being sick and deceiving people for money. A certain Madina with her mother went to TV and said that Baranovskaya was a charlatan. And even last Friday, she was ready to go to "TV" with a story about her theft. Stella was hurt by this, and she was even ready to sit on a lie detector if he was taken to her. For she no longer walked and screamed at every touch to her. When we put on a drip, the blood was very thick, and it was clear that she was living her last days.”

This insight was prompted by another letter that I received the other day from another - very large - publishing house.

The publishing house decided to make a book about a well-known Russian company. And he even managed to agree with this company on cooperation.

They just read the book “Nerds Do Business” in the company - and everyone there somehow liked it very much.

Of course, I refused, because now I’m up to my ears, and there are already some plans for the future. But still I thought about it.

It's kind of hard to believe, but the book "Nerds Do Business" came out eight years ago. And I started it even earlier.

That is, almost ten years ago, I got carried away with my idea to write a “true story about entrepreneurship in Russia”. Ten years ago, at my own peril, I began to implement it. Ten years ago, I traveled to Syktyvkar, conducted interviews, and then sat in the evenings over the manuscript.

It was a great time, and I remember it with nostalgia, but I don’t admit it too often: since then, so much has happened.

Life went on. I quit journalism, founded and moved to Berlin ...

My son is already a teenager. And when I go to get a haircut, I look with surprise at my cropped gray hair. In the mirror, they are not yet so noticeable - but on a black cape it is quite.

And the book has remained the same as it was - and even after ten years it works for me.

Brings in some money, maintains a reputation, opens up interesting opportunities (even if I don't always use them). And all this - already without any effort on my part.

And sometimes you just happen to meet a person who says: this book simply changed my life. Not too little either.

Routine has always terrified me - and how much life it devours. Routine in everyday life and routine in work are equally inevitable and equally merciless. Too often it demands all our time and energy, but leaves nothing in return.

It is possible to live every day with heroic dedication, to do everything that the world expects from us and even more than that, and in the evening to fall exhausted from fatigue, but without any visible, tangible result.

And years later, you will look back like this in complete bewilderment and think: where did everything go? what has been done? and did I live at all?

It seems to me that many people never manage to break out of the routine just because they do not try to implement some extraordinary things in their business, do not try to build their lives in such a way that as a result of many days, and maybe even years of routine there is something tangible, meaningful, necessary, non-trivial and, most importantly, complete.

There is such a stupid word - a project. But it fits here in general.

There is an opinion that one must learn not from one's mistakes, as many people think, but from victories. Analyze what brought you success and develop.

So, looking back and reflecting on my positive experience, I recently realized that in order to break out of the routine, you need to implement extraordinary and memorable projects.

Well, for example, write an unusual book.

I admit this without much shame, despite the fact that I myself recently wrote. But I didn’t score, I wasn’t lazy, I didn’t sit idly by waiting for some kind of “inspiration”.

I just hit a dead end. This happens in our industry. I just couldn't go on. Tried - and nothing worthwhile came out.

And it was at this moment that I was terribly glad that I was a “fake” writer.

Promises must be kept. And I promised from time to time to share some thoughts about the craft of writing.

After all, we all have to be a little bit of a writer from time to time. Every day we write letters, posts, instructions, business plans and God knows what else.

And when so much depends on our ability to express thoughts on the screen, it would be nice, of course, to do it more or less with dignity.

Fortunately, there is a simple principle that always helps me personally. And you don't even have to be a great writer to follow it.

Every time I write, I aim to hook the reader in the very first sentence.

I developed this rule when I worked as a reporter in magazines.

I then tried to imagine how a person reads each issue. First he flips through the pages, looks at the pictures, then maybe he pays attention to the headings.

At some point - lo and behold - for some reason, he decides to stop and spend a little time on one of the texts of the issue.

For this to happen with my article, I should have thought of a cool headline.

But so that the reader does not immediately jump off, he had to be hit on the head with a butt in the very first sentence.

So that he loses his orientation in space, and when he wakes up, he realizes that he has already read half of the article. This "butt" is the very first sentence of the article, a maximum of two.

This is post-repentance. And a warning.

Today I wanted to send a new chapter to subscribers. And didn't send it. And I am writing to you about this in order to show by my own example how much constancy means in life.

Or its absence.

I usually send out a new part of the manuscript every three weeks. Empirically, it was possible to establish that such a rhythm allows you to maintain an optimal balance between quality and a more or less acceptable pace.

But this time something went wrong. The new part did not stick together in time. And in the end, the next Monday came, but the next chapter did not. And for those who are used to following, there is nothing to read.

Well, okay, someone else in my place would say, you can wait. To be honest, I would have said so myself - a couple of years ago. But the current "I" is sure that in the modern world there is nothing more valuable than constancy. Especially when it comes to the wonderful world of the global Internet.

Many smart people today realize that they need to do something on the Internet. Write, shoot, compose, share. Somehow to be present.

Some adepts of the new reality even say this: if you are not online, then it is as if you do not exist. Especially in a professional sense.

This is probably an exaggeration. There are still quite a few pros who have one hundred and three contacts on Facebook and the last post is for 2011, but this does not prevent them from staying on top of their business. But these people are becoming less and less.

One way or another, the infrastructure of the Internet with all its social networks, blogs, mailing lists today provides fantastic opportunities for communicating with people from all over the world. And it's a sin not to use these opportunities.

But here's what I've noticed: a lot of people try, but a few people get any use out of it. Quite often people do something, but do not see the result - and in the end, disappointed, they quit.

And you can say that not everyone has the talent, or the right idea, or the experience, or whatever. But I came to the conclusion that the main thing in this case is quite different. What in English is called consistency and which is not very accurately translated by the Russian word "permanence".

It used to be like this for me: I’m lying on the couch at home, spitting at the ceiling, and then someone calls me from an unknown number, and it turns out that this is another oligarch asking me to help him make a book.

Well, the oligarch, as a rule, did not call himself - it was done by one of his close associates. But the fact remains that what marketers call “leads” (moreover, leads from those people we are used to reading about in Forbes magazine) rained down on my head without any effort on my part.

Apparently, a number of notable book projects have built up a certain reputation for me. And the offer in this market did not indulge in abundance. And so many of those who wanted to pour out their souls to the world in an epic format had no choice but to call some Kotin.

I will not be flirtatious: I undertook such tasks without hesitation - and with pleasure. One day it hit and I even wrote a post about how great it is to write books for others.

Years have passed. And now I look back at them with sadness. Because I then made one of the biggest mistakes in my professional career.

Writing a non-fiction book is just one of those.

Books in general are not an easy task that drags on for months, if not years. Well, non-fiction will be even worse than any novel.

After all, here, before writing anything, you must first collect, systematize and comprehend a ton of information, and then also remember to present it correctly.

Ten years ago, I spent two weeks with Stepan Pachikov, the hero of the book about Paragraph, recording many hours of interviews.

But this is not enough for the book, and over the past year we have conducted dozens of hours of additional interviews with him alone.

In order for the story to turn out to be true and rich in details, the testimonies of other participants in the events are also needed. I've already interviewed a dozen eyewitnesses. But there is more to be asked.

Perhaps only cats and selfies. Only cats and selfies can compete in popularity with posts about methods of personal effectiveness in social networks. Willy-nilly, and I sin this genre. On this page, I've collected some of my most popular posts I've written in recent years about personal productivity. They all elicited some non-zero response - which means they may not be entirely hopeless.

So far I have received a total of 112 reviews. Based on the five-chapter averages, 73% of readers rated the book as excellent (in the survey, they chose the option "Gorgeous! I look forward to continuing!")

For me, this is an inspiring result. Of the 112 reviews, only one - "did not like it at all." Although it should be borne in mind, of course, that those who do not like it at all probably simply do not participate in the survey.

The first chapter caused the most positive response, which is probably natural. At the same time, on the general downward trend, the fourth chapter stands out with a more positive assessment. This may indicate that the third and fifth chapters still need to be worked on.

For me, the most interesting thing is written reviews. Positive - inspire. Negative - make you think. I'll start with the positive.

In early September 2017, the Internet was full of rumors that the young actress Baranovskaya had died. But who is Stella Baranovskaya? What did she become famous for, and what disease claimed her life?

Stella Baranovskaya was a young and beautiful girl, an aspiring actress. She was born in Moscow on July 26, 1987. There is no information about her childhood, it is only known that from a young age she dreamed of becoming a famous actress, so she went to study after school at the Moscow Art Theater.

Where was Stella Baranovskaya filmed?

The girl communicated little with her parents, mostly she maintained close relationships only with her grandmother. After receiving her diploma, Stella, like all graduates of the acting department, began to go to auditions, pass tests, but she could not get a more or less prominent role, although she managed to play episodic roles in some films.

It is rather difficult to list in which films Stella Baranovskaya starred, they cannot be attributed to the filmography of the actress, since her name did not appear in the credits. The roles were too small and invisible, so her name and face remained unfamiliar to the viewer. Then few people knew who Stella Baranovskaya was. The most significant film in her track record was The Cosmonaut's Grandson. This is a motion picture by Andrei Panin, in which Stella starred in a short episode as a girl in a car. But it was not shooting that brought her fame, but illness.

The onset of the disease

On the morning of January 1, 2015, Stella felt unwell and had to go to the hospital, where she was immediately sent for an examination and biopsy was taken. Later, the results became known, which turned out to be worse than any assumptions - acute lymphoblastic leukemia.

Treatment

When the girl's misfortune became known to a wide circle, she had "star" friends: Katya Gordon, Lera Kudryavtseva, singer Zara and Anfisa Chekhova. They did not stand aside, began to help the girl, announced a fundraiser, leaving messages on the Internet that Stella Baranovskaya was dying. The collected money was barely enough for such an expensive treatment. The doctors prescribed a course of chemotherapy. At first, Stella strictly followed the instructions, but later a severe intolerance to chemistry opened up and it was decided to stop the course, since the girl had to experience terrible torment, and there was no positive result.

Stella decided to resort to alternative medicine, she turned to a clinic in the states, where they promised to cure her with a detox method. This method did not bring success, after which she left for Mexico, where she was going to meet a doctor who promised to cure her with a single injection that kills cancer cells. However, the meeting broke down literally at the last moment, there is no information about the reasons. Further, the actress resorted to metaphysical techniques, treatment with chlorophyll, spirulina. The ex-husband of Irina Ponarovskaya, Wayland Rodd, tried to cure Stella using his own technique (fruits, vegetables and juices).

Scandal in society

The collection of funds for treatment caused not only a wave of sympathy among the people, but also a wave of mistrust. The girl posted on the Internet photos taken in America and Mexico. Many have concluded that Stella is not being treated, but is spending the money of sympathizers on vacation. Even groups were created on social networks, where the girl was poured with mud. Madina Tatraeva spoke especially about this. According to her, she knows firsthand what cancer is. Madina, in a rather rude manner, expressed her doubts about the illness of the actress. There were rumors that Stella was seen in one part of Moscow, then in another, while she did not look dying.

Participation in the program "Live"

In December 2016, Stella Baranovskaya took part in the filming of the Live program with Boris Korchevnikov, where the girl had to justify her expenses and respond to the attacks of Madina Tatraeva. Then she was sure that the disease had receded. She stated that she was able to overcome cancer, talked about the methods that she used. However, unfortunately, it was only a remission.

Then, on the program, I managed to get through to the clinic in the states where Stella was being treated. A spokesperson for the clinic confirmed that the actress was undergoing detox treatment with them.

Personal life and son

The actress left a six-year-old son Danya. Presumably his father is Maxim Kotin, but he did not recognize the boy. His name is not on the birth certificate. Max Kotin's parents are wealthy people, among whose friends are eminent lawyers. It is known that Stella tried to introduce her son to his paternal grandparents, but was put outside by security along with the boy. Then there was no talk of any illness, so the girl left attempts to establish relations with the father of the child and his relatives, she managed herself.

The girl's parents were not too interested in her life. It is known that when Stella was undergoing chemotherapy, her mother lived with her in the ward. This is where support ended. Stella said that her mother was not helping her with treatment. She also said that she doubted that the grandmother would take care of her grandson, so when her condition worsened, she asked her friends to convince the father of the child to take Danya.

She wrote a letter to Kotin and his parents, where she said that Stella Baranovskaya was dying, described in detail the course of the girl’s illness, her photographs and photographs of the boy, but she never received an answer. Moreover, the correspondence was blocked on social networks, leaving not the slightest chance to reach out to the relatives of Stella's son. The girl's mother did not express a desire to take her grandson.

Baranovskaya was going to file a lawsuit to establish paternity, but she did not have time to do it - her condition deteriorated sharply, she had to go to an oncology clinic.

Last days and death

The first message about Baranovskaya's death appeared on Katya Gordon's Instagram in 2017. With her eyes full of tears, she said that in the morning Stella's grandmother and her friend Olya had contacted her. It became known that the girl's heart stopped.

In recent days, Stella experienced terrible pain, her kidneys and liver failed, the doctors refused to repeat the course of chemotherapy, because the girl's condition would not allow her to survive additional stress. The body of the actress was exhausted, a few days before her death she stopped getting up, she could no longer walk. All this time, while Stella was in the hospital, her son stayed with her friends, with Anfisa Chekhova, Zara, Katya Gordon and Lera Kudryavtseva.

The funeral

The organization of the funeral of Stella Baranovskaya was carried out by her eminent friends, they also took on all the associated costs. There is no information about whether the girl's parents took part in this process. On September 8, the funeral of Stella Baranovskaya took place.

Public outcry after news of death

After the death of the girl, reproaches poured towards her ill-wishers that they attacked the unfortunate girl in vain, spreading discussions and spewing accusations, brought the actress up, not believing that Stella Baranovskaya Madina Tatraeva did not give any comments on this for two weeks after the death of the girl occasion, after which she posted a post on Instagram, where she wrote that she had never called Stella a charlatan. She claimed that she only expressed distrust towards the methods that the girl resorted to. According to her, the idea of ​​being treated with an infrared sauna in an American clinic or being treated with chlorophyll was doomed from the very beginning, and Stella should have followed the advice of doctors and continued to undergo chemotherapy.

What will happen to the boy?

The further fate of Stella's son remains uncertain. The first time after the funeral, the baby lived with the singer Zara. She told how they went shopping together, Danya chose a butterfly for her mother, wanted to do something nice. The singer did not dare to tell him the terrible news about his mother.

Later, Stella's grandmother took the baby, but the woman is already quite advanced in age and will no longer be able to take care of him. Neither Stella's parents nor Dani's father expressed a desire to take the child.