Let's try to figure out what is important for guys in girls, what do men pay their attention to in the first place? Let all the girls be different, even rather unique and each with its own zest in the head, but there are common factors that no man will ignore.

1. Common interests

It's great when a girl shares your interests. When you meet, you immediately have a topic for conversation without the risk of exhausting yourself after a couple of phrases and moving into awkward silence. Many have experienced when you tell her about how to chop zombies in a computer game, and in response, silence. Or about football, but you see only an empty, bored look. Guys looking for girls who share their interests need to remember that they need to take into account the interests of their chosen ones, because. complete coincidence of interests is practically a utopian option and almost never occurs in practice. And in fact, the best option is if your hobbies do not completely coincide, because where they differ, you can complement each other by sharing new information.

2. Soul

Such a concept as "For me, the soul is important in a girl" is also abstract as Picasso's paintings. Each guy sees it differently, but in some aspects we are one. Saying that she has a soul also means that she is close to you in spirit and in the aforementioned common interests and understands you as a person. It can also mean that she is gentle and caring towards you. Or just feel at peace when you sit with your arms around the river and enjoy the moment in silence. And the fact that at this moment you don’t even need to speak to feel closeness and there is an understanding to sit with her heart to heart. However, heart to heart, you can not only be silent, but also have fun, the main thing is to experience a sense of unity.

3. Women's butt

The female butt is one of the first parts of the body that men pay attention to. Scientists explain this from the point of view of physiology. Men subconsciously assess whether a girl can give good offspring by the size of her buttocks and hips. The ideal value for each man is different, this is due to the genes that the representative of the stronger sex has inherited. Of course, preferences also vary by race and culture, such that our dark-skinned brothers prefer bulkier and rounder shapes, while our pale-skinned brothers prefer more modest and compact shapes. Not a small role in the size of the forms is played by fashion, which dictates to poor girls how they should look.

4. Pretty face

If the advantages of a figure in the conditions of a city meeting are not always possible (winter, clothing that hides dignity, etc.), then it is quite possible to see and evaluate the face, except in those cases if you live in an Islamic state and the maximum that you can see is eyes. The face for guys is more important than the figure, this is confirmed by foreign studies. If the sight of a beautiful female priest excites animal passion in guys, then a beautiful face makes the heart skip a beat, inspires men to write poetry, etc. The face of the girl contains a lot of beauty and eyes and lips, hair and cute facial expressions in general, which makes the guys lose their heads. Although you need to be careful for a long time in the development of cosmetology, women have learned to skillfully disguise their real face under all kinds of cosmetic dyes. Sometimes, when you see a girl without makeup, it is difficult to recognize in her the one to whom he wrote a poem just yesterday.

5. Women's breasts

Although this is quite predictable and expected, but, nevertheless, the way it is. With breasts, as with priests, each man has his own preferences; someone loves giant-sized breasts, and someone likes small peaches, and those who crave silicone creations are also unforgettable. You can talk about the female breast for a long time, but it's better to look at it. This is what all the guys do, and there is nothing wrong with that, because when we get to know a girl, we start with a superficial examination (face, chest, buttocks), and only then we begin to be interested in her deep inner world.

Man acquisition. Manual for the conquest and retention of men Rybitskaya Natalya Borisovna

What attracts women in men?

Let's turn to the good old statistics that state that:

“Women in men are attracted primarily by intellect».

However, women who have been married to geniuses prefer not smart men for remarriage, but at least pleasant conversationalists with a sense of humor. Why? Excessive genius suppresses its own superiority in a woman (I'm not talking about its own significance).

Comment on: Having done my own research, I can confidently report that the statistics claim is complete nonsense! Men attract us with masculinity and audacity (from the word “dare”). These qualities, inherent in nature in individual males, act on women like red on a bull (rive attention and intrigue). And the intellect is a gainful business, if it were a promising object. Are there any objections?

Isn't that too much for one man? Against the background of such a "superman" any woman will seem second-rate. Personally, when I read a quote, I don’t see a man at all: it completely depicts a portrait of a modern woman.

Do you agree with me?

"Only 17% of women value sexuality in men." Statistics, even though you are female, but here they “turned down” ... I don’t even want to comment on the quote.

“Attractive appearance, kindness, love for children, domesticity, easy character complete the list of qualities that attract women in men. And yet, it would seem that this is important. ”

Oh, statistics, what seems important to you, for a woman has a completely different meaning.

Perhaps the secret of such selectivity lies in the fact that we want to find our other half, which will either complement our own flaws or emphasize our virtues?

If we are kind, love children, know how to create comfort, but are completely devoid of physical strength and folly, then we lack precisely this. Who can fill the gap? The male!

If we are beautiful "outrageously", who can become a frame for the "priceless diamond"? A man without an attractive appearance.

And love for children and housekeeping are so rare in men that if we were looking for a life partner according to these criteria, the search would drag on for decades.

By the way, it jumped up - after all, insulted pride in me, and I decided to comment on the previous quote about male sexuality. Forgive me for being annoying...

17% of “concerned” opponents is not an indicator, just the remaining 83% turned out to be bashful and modest in nature. In fact, they care about sex hoo how!

Now my conscience is clear and I can move on to the next point.

What do women expect from men?

And again, boring statistics, in which I began to be a little disappointed ...

“First of all, a woman needs a man in order to feel reliability and stability.”

I translate into “human language”: so that he throws flowers, property, all his love and himself at her feet. Otherwise, a woman feels reliability and stability just in the absence of a man. She can be herself, do what she wants and not report to anyone.

"50% of women are perfectly happy in marriage". Naturally, after all, half of them are in a state of "honeymoon", and the other half ... Yes, they will forgive me for being direct, but only fools are absolutely happy. A woman says that she is absolutely happy on very few occasions: for example, on her own wedding day or when she cuddles her newborn child to her breast. The rest of the time, when she's good, she's just happy

« 27% of women are unmarried”. Are they waiting for a handsome prince or does no one marry? Unfortunately, the statistics are silent on this.

"23% are divorced." Oh la la! Better say that they are disappointed in men, or even doubt that they are able to give them this deep feeling.

"For a woman at all times and at any age, true love is the main value and goal." What is love? “Love is a mighty force that moves the world!” - I want to shout at the joy of statistics. But I remember my two previous marriages “out of great love”, and I involuntarily quote Uncle Krylov. His fables "Quartet" and "Swan, Cancer and Pike" are a good example for all women who dream of building a family only on love. Hence the problems: a man "plays a dashing dance balalaika", and a woman "strums a languid romance on the guitar." One pulls the "cart" into the "abyss of passions", the other - to the sinful earth. As a result - "and things are still there."

For some, love is an eternal and endless flight, for others it is a slight flutter from flower to flower. For the third - peace and stability. For me it is equality and mutual respect.

May it be as you wish. Amen!

“True love does not occur very often in life, because young and ardent hearts do not know how to wait, they are in a hurry, they mistake a feeling of sympathy, sexual desire for love.”

And mature women are afraid of loneliness, and also do not want to wait - I already add this on my own, for reference.

Love, of course, is a good thing, but at the same time, mature women highly appreciate the ability of a man to provide for them. Although, in recent times, many girls aspire not to high feelings, but to material wealth.

Well, since we are talking about finances, let's listen to "romances" on this topic ...

“With a sweet paradise and in a hut” - oh, how deeply our great-grandmothers were mistaken, driving this truth into the heads of their daughters! Love is love, but you want to eat every day, and not only to eat ...

I wonder what the statistics would say about women who earn more than their husbands? Why go far: personally, when my husband brought “specific money”, I was completely sure that love had not bypassed me. As soon as I “surpassed” my husband, scandals began in the family. I note that the initiator was the husband, not me, because his pride was hurt. He had one thing to do: either "jump over" my bar, or accept the inevitable. He preferred the second and turned out to be a weakling. But I, a weak woman and not a feminist, wanted to see a leader man next to me. In short, our great love "stumbled over a financial stone" and shattered.

Both on! Found a quote on the subject:

"In families where the financial basis is the income of husbands, women are quite happy."

Oh, that vague word "quite" that does not give a clear answer: are women so happy or just pretending to be happy?

Perhaps they are satisfied with the "bar" of a man and they do not require more? In this case, "with a sweet paradise and in a hut" - this is about them.

So let's sum it up . A woman needs a man who meets her “bar”: spiritual, physical, sexual and financial.

« A woman needs a man to command him".

A strong, self-confident man happily submits to his beautiful half, as soon as she moves her finger. He is in a hurry to fulfill her every whim, just to please his beloved!

By God, it looks like a script for a science fiction movie, but isn't this what women dream of? To dream - they dream, but more often they themselves run and look after their companions, as if they were not “support and a reliable shoulder”, but a helpless child. Even the goldfish, having fulfilled only three wishes of the meticulous old man, sent him away. After all, there is a limit to angelic female patience! There is no limit only to women's dreams ... and our stupidity. Rather, credulity, which, in other respects, is one and the same.

How to build a relationship with your husband so that he does not shy away from the shrill notes of your commanding voice? How not to turn into a dog that can walk on its hind legs? The answer is simple: respect the man in your man, and then, with a clear conscience, gently coo: “darling, I will command the parade!”

« A woman needs a man as a friend and adviser". M- yes, this is already something from the category of “nowhere else”, when Viagra does not help either ...

If for a woman these qualities were more important than sex, then Nadezhda Konstantinovna Krupskaya would call herself the happiest of mortals.

However, my neighbor, who is fed up with this sex, dreams of intimate conversations with her husband. So I thought: in fact, it’s not bad to have a man-interlocutor and a man-lover in one person. Especially if you have common interests and his advice is not devoid of common sense. Unfortunately, women more often prefer not a man, but a girlfriend as a "spiritual partner". And this, you see, is by no means conducive to rapprochement.

By the way, most beautiful women are tired of constant attention to their appearance, for them the most cherished dream is to meet a man who can appreciate their mind and business qualities. However, I dare to suggest that if a man physically ignores a beauty for a week, he will be enrolled either as an impotent or ... Well, you understand ...

And then the offended woman will challenge the man, and at any cost she wants to win.

Hence the conclusion: we need both, and preferably in one bottle.

Does this mean that:

« We need a man as a goal for winning? Undoubtedly! For many women, hunting for men becomes the meaning of life: as long as she has prey, she lives. And this is wonderful, because as long as men come across women's networks, as long as a woman (married or free) feels like a wonderful “Diana the huntress”, she remains a WOMAN.

author Rybitskaya Natalya Borisovna

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Many girls mistakenly believe that by the beauty of a man they mean an attractive appearance and a slender figure. However, it is not. Men look not only at the forms, but also at the “internal content”.

The appearance of a woman is something unique. The female body is beautiful in all aspects, but you can’t argue against reflexes, so you need to understand what a man pays attention to in the very first place and why he does it. You can attract the attention of a man artificially, but for this it is important to know the subtleties of the psychology of a man.

first look

It is very important to know what any man pays attention to when he sees you for the first time on the street, at work or somewhere else. Someone has a beautiful face, and someone has a body. Some are doubly lucky because they have both. For those who do not take care of themselves, it is very difficult to use the magic of the first meeting and its possibilities. If you have any problems, then you should not try to spend a lot of time masking the flaws. It is better to show your advantages properly. For example, if you are a full lady, but with large breasts, then you need to take care of the neckline. Many women have an ordinary face, but their eyes are very expressive. You can learn how to paint correctly to focus on the eyes. This is the first and most important rule - to take advantage.

The fact is that a man never looks at a woman with a critical attitude: only other women do this. Men automatically reveal only your pluses. This means that only after he sees your beautiful eyes, big breasts and beautiful shoes, he will pay attention to something else. Male psychology is simple, because a man is impulsive by nature. Almost one hundred percent of men do not peer into the details of the female appearance at the first meeting. This happens because you impress him with what catches his eye. It is for this reason that dating on social networks is both good and bad. You need to properly style your page to keep the element of intrigue. The fact is that many ladies post photos of an almost intimate nature, and not standard ones, but retouched ones. You are not in a glossy magazine, so there should be few photos and they should be “live”. A man will not be very pleased if someone who he dreamed of and imagined does not come to the meeting. In general, in a social network it is quite difficult to get to know each other for real. A man sees you and can see all the flaws in the photo before the first date, which will result in a wrong opinion about you. This does not mean that online dating is not possible. You just need as little time as possible between acquaintance and a real meeting.

The first look on the street or somewhere else is very important. Scientists have found that in the very first place, men look reflexively at the hips and waist, and then at the chest. After that, only the gaze rises to the face. From these three steps, his opinion of you and your beauty is formed. They look at your "back" part only if the opportunity arises, but before that they absolutely do not need it. That is why we can say that most of all a man is attracted to breasts, and it does not matter whether it is large or small in size. Some people like small breasts, so you may still not guess the priorities of a man. The first place with the chest is shared by the legs. If you have beautiful legs, then they must be emphasized with tight clothing. Next comes the face, and then the waist and everything else. Men pay attention to bright makeup or some of its individual aspects. No need to highlight both lips and eyes. Pick one better. Men pay attention to what they remember. They do not try to remember you the way they want, because nature decides everything for them.

Beauty of the soul or bright appearance? Slim body or nice roundness? Laughter or aristocratic manners? What attracts men the most in women, and what do they pay attention to first of all? These questions have occupied women at all times, and do not give rest now.

According to sociologists, men, in descending order, are impressed by:

• diligence;
• tenderness;
• the beauty;
• energy;

These are the qualities men would like to see in their companions. Moreover, only 20% of respondents voted in favor of the latter criterion.

But what do men note for themselves in the first place? There are no unambiguous answers - preferences depend on age, lifestyle, and character traits.

young men

What conquers the hearts of guys in youth? This is enthusiasm, burning eyes, a strong young body and revealing outfits. Men are visual at any age, but in their early twenties, when the blood boils, the eyes are not just looking for, but craving for pictures that excite the imagination. That is why young guys, for the most part, fall for appearance. They want to have a spectacular girl next to them, who undoubtedly stands out from the crowd.

Average age

By the age of thirty, a man becomes independent and pursues other goals. He is no longer attracted by naive romanticism and youthful carelessness. Now he is looking for a life partner, and the following feminine qualities come to the fore:

• independence;
• purposefulness;
• self-confidence;
• sense of style and measure in everything;
• grooming;
• sharp mind and art of speech;
• sense of humor.

At this stage of life, a man will not be satisfied with just sex, although this is very important for him. But the head is already spinning not from cheap hints, but from skillful, thoughtful flirting, which, by the way, women after 25 years of age are fluent in.

Men 40+

Representatives of the stronger sex, who have crossed the forty-year milestone, appreciate in women not so much appearance as charm and inner fire. They are again attracted by a perky look that makes a woman young, adventurism and a craving for adventure.

However, this does not negate external attractiveness - a woman should be neat, tidy and refined. Also caring and understanding.

At first sight

The inner world of a person, unfortunately, cannot be recognized at first sight, so men can only contemplate the outside. However, the representatives of the stronger sex do not look in one direction - they are attracted to completely different things.

Gait

A woman can be arbitrarily beautiful and well-groomed, but if she walks in a marching pace or rushes forward, not noticing anything around, then this is dumbfounding. And if a girl also stoops or rakes her legs, then she will undoubtedly attract attention to herself, but she will definitely not interest a man, but will disappoint him.

Another thing is when a woman walks easily and leisurely, her shoulders are turned, her chin is raised, and there is a smile on her lips. This one wants to smile back, and hold the door, and invite her on a date.

Hair

It just seems that men don't care about a woman's hairstyle. Many of them primarily note the color, length, and splendor of the curls. Therefore, do not even hope that dirty strands or regrown roots will go unnoticed.

Face

If a man initially pays attention to a woman's face, this does not mean that he notes for himself some separate features. He is attracted by a clear spiritual look, openness, freshness and purity. By the way, bright makeup repels most men, as it is fraught with surprises for them.

Forms

Beautiful and high breasts, thin waist and rounded hips, of course, attract the eye. And not only slender girls can boast of the attention of the stronger sex - large women are no less desirable. The main thing, the guys admit, is that everything should be proportional and not completely ugly.

Hands and feet

Yes, yes - these parts of the body are also an important criterion for someone. It is by them that men judge the neatness and accuracy of a lady: burrs, rough skin, cracked heels and peeling nail polish age a woman. It's not too pleasant to look at, and even more so to touch.

Some guys say that they are magically affected by a female voice - deep, hoarse, or, conversely, sonorous, like a bell. And behind the enchanting sounds you no longer notice either the appearance or the figure.

Smell

Many men are led precisely by the smell of a girl - this happens at the level of biochemical processes. The natural fragrance of the female body, mixed with the fragrant notes of perfumery, turns into a unique aroma. That's what guys go crazy about.

Behavior

Sometimes a man is attracted by some gesture or behavior of a woman in a given situation. Being next to her at a certain moment of her life, often difficult, he is fascinated by decisiveness in actions, kindness towards someone, timely help, infectious laughter or even tears. However, men admit that sometimes one wave of the hand or a turn of the head is enough to strike on the spot.

Even knowing what men pay attention to, do not try to fit yourself into certain parameters of appearance and behavior. It is impossible to foresee everything - it is enough to be neat and behave appropriately. And you need to like yourself first of all.

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