Dagestani Avars attitude towards women. Dagestanis and Russian girls attitude. What are they - modern inhabitants of the Land of mountains

My opinion is subjective and personal, the conclusions are made on the basis of what I saw and heard during my marriage to a Dagestan, and are presented exclusively from a female point of view. I myself am a Tatar, I live and work in Moscow. Head covering, modest clothing - this is mandatory for me, as in principle, for all Muslim girls. When we met my future husband, a Dagestani, he talked about Islam, read namaz, often remembered the Almighty, and this affected my choice. I was sincerely delighted, thanking Allah for the fact that I met my man, whom both the head covering and the absence of bare parts of the body not only attract, but, it seemed to me, delight.

We made the decision to get married. We went to the mosque, where the nikah was read, after which my husband safely moved into my apartment. From that moment on, I got the opportunity to learn more about him and his kindred environment, since I had previously seen Caucasians only in films and only from the positive side.

I won’t say anything, their hospitality and respect for elders pleased me, but in everything else, alas. Especially regarding the show-offs - this is something special, it even seems to me, laid down at their genetic level. It doesn’t matter how, it doesn’t matter at whose expense and at what cost, but each of them believed that he simply had to be cooler than the other. At the same time, they themselves are deeply confident in their superiority over others, even having nothing, no education, no work ... NOTHING! They will sit without a permanent source of income, and even a fickle one, drinking beer and smoking "noble grass", not having a penny of money, but even in front of each other, despite the fact that they have known each other for many, many years, from the same aul, village and collective farm, they still try to show those qualities and material benefits that are not even available. Show off each other like little children.

And their desire to look presentable? It is something! Having one old, worn, washed-out shirt, a suit with a reflection of a shiny coating and a tattered lining, and often one for all, without any desire to work for their own well-being, being content because of laziness with what they have, if only not to work, they smoothed him to such an extent that he already shone and was for them an indicator of wealth, self-importance and unshakable evidence that he was not a simple “hard worker”, but at least a “boss” and not of an average hand, but much higher.

I was able to make sure that the ability to "speak" for the sake of "speak" i.e. word for word's sake, not word for deed's sake, this is also an integral part of their genetics. They say EVERYTHING and a lot, I would say this: “Too much text”, but usually it doesn’t go beyond the conversation. They could talk about the need to do something in order to achieve certain levels and heights, they boldly made promises to each other “to find out tomorrow; work on the issue tomorrow; tomorrow to meet and connect the right people, ”etc., but, as a rule, tomorrow no one did anything, continuing to lie on the couch waiting for the refrigerator to be filled with food, and the house will have money for much-needed cafes and eateries, where you can sit "over a cup of tea" ...

With regard to their fulfillment of the duties of a husband, to whom the Almighty entrusted each specific woman (in this paragraph I do not touch on the topic of sex, they are “always and please”): understanding that a family needs to be supported, take care of the availability of food or at least money for them purchase is basically non-existent. As well as the understanding that the spouse has a need for clothes, moreover, multi-season. Any conversation on this topic is abruptly suppressed by the phrase "everything will be." When asked when this event will happen, the answer is no less categorical “leave me alone with your whims, you already got it.” At the same time, there is always money for a “cup of tea”, a noble and so beloved grass and the 33rd pair of shoes with an elongated and pointed nose. I'm not talking about the fact that in addition to elementary duties, every Muslim, and Dagestanis very strongly and loudly declare their unshakable religiosity, is simply obliged to treat his wife well, take care of her inner peace, etc. Often at home, only one thing is heard: “rest, in short,” “stop these ridiculous conversations,” etc., and often in order to get away from discussing really important polls that shape the future relationship of spouses.

Now with regards to loyalty. It is, of course, remarkable that most of those Dagestanis with whom I was lucky to meet firmly follow the principle: “treason is a sin, I didn’t find myself in the garbage heap and it’s better to be alone than with just anyone,” the last phrase always led me in confusion in terms of what, apparently, except for “anyone” on their life path and does not occur, and therefore it is necessary to think about expanding the territories visited and be more careful in choosing friends and girlfriends. At the same time, often, arriving in the capital of our Motherland, most of the Dagestan eagles are already firmly and firmly bound by marriage ties, strengthened by more than one child. Despite the presence of spouses entrusted to them, when they come to earn money, for some reason they forget too quickly why they came, and limit themselves to the occupation of local girls, and they do not disdain anything and no one.

For example, when we were walking along the street with my husband and his countrymen, they very loudly discussed the girls passing by, whose skirts were at waist level, and their chests were not covered at all in any way, pathetically spitting after her, shouting insulting expressions, but also time, each of them, having learned to randomly rotate his eyes, during the time until his spit reaches the ground, managed to “feel at the level of the fundus of the eye” everything that was not covered. And with luck, he managed to “get” the phone number of such a “goddess” and then starved him out, spending the last money on SMS messages, in which he elevated her beauty to such heights, to which, in principle, only birds reach. Moreover, they perceived this as a “joke”, boasting at home to each other and sometimes reading aloud the messages of these, as they called them, “Russian chickens”.

All without exception are registered on dating sites, and even on the dirtiest mobile chats, the essence of which is to send photos of various parts of the body, both women and men, with a request to “take a picture and send the chest in the right angle”, discussing the problems of frigidity, sexual intimacy with a partner, etc. At the same time, none of them paid attention to the fact that girls from both Dagestan and the Caucasus as a whole are also registered on these sites, taking no less active part in discussions of such topics. The men were in no way embarrassed that it turned out that he himself was spoiling his own nation, in the person of that Dagestan girl who sent him a photo of her naked figure. When I asked if they were sure that it wasn’t his wife who was talking to him under a different name, they “exploded” and started beating their chests, convincing me that THEIR girls were decent and they simply didn’t “hang out” on such sites they can, but the names "Heda, Zalina, Madina, Pati, etc." these are fictitious, and the indication of such cities as Makhachkala, Kizlyar, etc., does not mean that this is true.

Also, my observation showed that these men consider it their sacred duty to brighten up the loneliness of ALL girls, with the obligatory invitation of the latter to a cafe and no less obligatory demonstration performance, expressed in the performance of the national dance “Lezginka”. Moreover, I completely agree with the author of the article, they dance lezginka always and everywhere, right up to metro stations, they start alone, to the noisy applause of the countrymen present, and later it develops into a crowd of men waving their arms and legs, and if you're lucky, then by chance hooting who found themselves at the place of the dance of women, completely without thinking about the appropriateness of the ongoing action ...

It is possible to describe for a long time those actions or inactions that I directly witnessed during the period of my life with my ex-husband, but I will limit myself to what has been said and summarize: the people I knew are distinguished by: 1) Falsity, and sometimes it seemed to me that they were constantly lying and in everything, just like that, without even thinking, just to embellish yourself, wishful thinking, not to be ridiculed, to seem like a "cool", etc.; 2) Ponte - this is the place to be, apparently the majority simply have nothing to be proud of, nothing has been achieved, nothing has been worked out, and there is no desire to earn money, but I really want respect and honor; 3) Laziness - extremely lazy, work - this is for Tajiks and Uzbeks, and they can only lead, and also do not disdain to live and support women, if you're lucky, then not very old; 4) Debauchery - it feels like they were kept for a long time in a dark and cold pit called their native village and home, escaping from where, both men and women, they just go crazy, confusing the banks and go into all serious trouble to satisfy their sexual interests, often not disdaining anything; 5) Extremely low requirements for the level and quality of relationships between spouses, a complete lack of elementary respect and care, and on both sides, their relationship can be more called consumer; 6) HUGE conceit and very high self-importance, which does not have the slightest reason or reason for it; 7) Drug dependence on herbs of various origins; 8) Increased pseudo-religiosity, which can be characterized by the phrase: "Muslims - one hand on the Koran, the other on a glass." When beer is drunk, all nonsense is smoked, the conversation inevitably turns to Islam, and this is accompanied by additional infusions of alcohol and lighting up the “peace pipe” made from a plastic bottle.

Of course, there are decent and decent people among the Dagestanis, and, fortunately, there are many of them, but they are not noticeable due to moderation, and young people are trying to "keep up with the times", gradually losing those personal qualities and features of the national culture, for which at all times the Caucasus was praised.

Dagestanis - under this word, not some single nation is united, but a kind of conglomerate of the most diverse peoples, soldered together. What is their peculiarity, why can Dagestan be called a territory with a unique population? In this article you will find answers to all these questions.

National composition of Dagestan

The conquest of the Caucasus was not easy for Russia. The highlanders felt independent, divided into small separate khanates, and the very concept of statehood was alien to them. Nevertheless, according to the results, Dagestan nevertheless became part of Russia. And this was the reason for the further rapprochement of the Dagestan peoples and the Russian population.

Today, Dagestanis coexist peacefully with Russians, as well as with representatives of other nationalities. Moreover, inter-ethnic marriages have also become commonplace, which also strengthen national ties. However, often a sense of inner freedom in a Russian beauty can cause relationships to go wrong.

It should be borne in mind that the difference in mentality here is still huge. And what attracts a Dagestan man to a Russian woman out of wedlock can alert him when he begins to think about creating a family with her. In general, the relationship between Caucasian guys and Russian girls is a topic.

On the other hand, many Slavic girls have an ambiguous attitude towards the Dagestanis. Features of the national character at a certain stage may not seem so important for relations. But when it comes to talking about the wedding, a woman begins to think and test her feelings for strength.

She understands that most often she will be forced to rotate in a circle of people with a completely different mentality and with different views on family life. Not everyone is ready to put up with this state of affairs. It is no coincidence that some researchers and psychologists argue that such marriages in 80-90% of cases end in divorce and a complete break in relations.

However, there are many examples of how such inter-ethnic marriages exist and are getting stronger day by day. and a Russian girl can create a real union, provided that their feelings are able to overcome the difference in worldviews. Again, the same religion (but not decisive) will be a big advantage.

If a Christian wife is ready to convert to Islam for the sake of love, this is already half the battle. Such cases are not uncommon. But the opposite examples can be counted in units. Even a Muslim man who loves his Russian wife is unlikely to give up his religion.

If a Slavic woman nevertheless decided to marry a representative of the mountains, she must understand that she will have to put up not only with many national traditions, but also with the way of life. Urban couples can still lead a completely secular lifestyle, but in the mountain villages a rigid patriarchy still reigns, and respect for elders is an integral feature of education in Dagestan. In such conditions, the girl will have to give up a short skirt and a lot of cosmetics. But, in such a family, children will know from birth that they are obliged to honor their father and mother.

What are they - the modern inhabitants of the Land of mountains?

In the central part of Russia, the attitude towards immigrants from Dagestan, to put it mildly, is ambiguous. And the reason for this, in part, lies in the national mentality. After all, what do residents of Russian cities most often say about Dagestanis? They are noted to:

  • behave aggressively towards the local population;
  • do not respect and do not observe the traditions and customs of other people;
  • make up the cells of the underworld;
  • not too willing to look for work, preferring to spend time idly.

It is clear that all these stereotypes have not developed in a vacuum. But, you should not row everyone with the same brush. Today, thousands of natives of the republic are working for the good of Russia: teachers, doctors, scientists, artists, athletes, etc. Many Dagestanis in Moscow adopt the local culture, honestly try to gain a foothold in the new territory, and are ready to find employment and work. However, the girls, having started relationships with young people from Dagestan, attribute the “unwillingness to work, but to have more money” almost to the features of the national character. Paradoxically!

Another nuance of the mentality is the desire to prove that you are the most successful, richest, and, as they say, cool. No wonder they often joke: "If the show-offs shone, then in Dagestan there would always be white nights." For the sake of such a competition, Dagestan men (as a rule, young men) are ready for anything. Such arrogance, not confirmed by real achievements, is not to everyone's liking. Their innate courtesy in some cases can be replaced by rudeness towards the interlocutor, especially if he is not a Caucasian.

We should not forget about another feature that is characteristic not only of the natives of the Republic of Dagestan, but also of almost all Caucasians - the clan system. The mountain way of life is so much “ingrained” into their genes that it sometimes cannot but surprise people of other nationalities. This is evidenced by many jokes about Dagestanis, most of which, to be fair, relate to all Caucasians and often simply artificially replace one nationality with another.

True, clannishness in many situations brings tangible benefits to the Dagestanis themselves. Family and the desire to rally, especially in an alien environment, allows them to survive. Yes, there are ambiguous traits in the character of the highlanders. Apparently, because of this, some bloggers post their appeals to fellow countrymen on the Internet.

But still, the majority of Dagestanis are good and hardworking people who were brought up in the best. And it is no coincidence that the Republic of Dagestan has been Russian for almost 150 years, becoming an important part of a large country and enriching it with its unique culture.

The peoples of Dagestan gave the world and the country great poets (, Faza Aliyev, etc.), scientists (for example, academician Abdusalam Huseynov - Director of the Institute of Philosophy of the Russian Academy of Sciences), more than 60 heroes of the Great Patriotic War (among them, one of the first to hoist the banner of Victory on the Reichstag) , you can go on for a long time.

The local wrestling school is known all over the world. One of the best wrestlers in history, a three-time Olympic champion, was born here. It was judoists RD Mansur Isaev and Tagir Khaibulaev who brought Russia the first gold medals at the London Olympics in 2012.

Our excursion will not be complete if we do not remember the folk crafts:

  • goldsmiths of the village of Kubachi;
  • daggers and knives of Kizlyar masters;
  • Untsukul art architecture (metal incision on wood);
  • Balkhar is an ancient center of ceramic and clay art;
  • - recognized as the best in the world;

The national question has always been acute in our country, and this is not surprising. The Russian Empire, later - the USSR, and even later Russia, was and is a common home for dozens of peoples and nationalities. Most of them live in harmony with each other, but, as the proverb says, "the family has its black sheep." And such a "freak" among the Slavic population is considered to be Dagestanis.

Dagestanis differ from Russians in literally everything, from their appearance to their national mentality and traditions. But no less differences can be found in any other two peoples. And the Slavs with the Caucasians have one more thing in common: they are equally disliked abroad. And, by the way, for the same thing:

- violent temperament, propensity for violence;

- disregard for state and moral laws;

- confidence that any problem can be solved with weapons or a bribe;

“But wait,” you say, “Caucasians are fine, but is the above about us?” No. Not about you, but about those moral monsters, which, alas, create the appearance of an entire nation in the eyes of the international community. Not all Dagestanis are bandits, not all Chechens are terrorists, not all Ukrainian women flash their bare breasts in front of the video cameras of foreign journalists, but it is these subhumans that we see on blue screens. It's not interesting to show normal people... This is how the Russians "beyond the hill" get the impression from observing the leisure of our bandits, deputies and oil workers.

And yet, if we make a collective portrait of the average Dagestan, we get a stranger and a potential enemy. Why? Let's figure it out.

The most characteristic feature of the Dagestanis is clannishness. Any nation that has this trait clearly manifested will always be unloved by its neighbors: remember the same Jews, ethnic Germans, Crimean Tatars. If any of the representatives of the above peoples has succeeded in anything, he will actively help his compatriots to succeed. A particularly amusing grotesque is obtained when it comes to bureaucratic positions: under the supervision of a high-ranking Dagestani, his brothers will work - relatives, cousins ​​and second cousins, and also sons, nephews, sons-in-law, in short - everyone who is able to sign and cope with the seal. In this situation, even a very smart and talented person from the outside cannot count on a good position.

Dagestanis zealously preserve their authenticity and strongly position themselves among Russians as strangers. How can you not jump into xenophobia here if you see a group of people of Caucasian nationality, emotionally talking about something in their own language? What if they are planning a terrorist attack right now? Moreover, even speaking in Russian, they manage to insert such tricky words into their speech that you won’t understand whether the Dagestani is talking about the weather, or he sent you obscene words. And try to demand clarification, and now, behind the back of the offender, a dozen more friends appear, ready to defend their own, without understanding who is to blame.

Aliens. This strangeness is everywhere. When a Russian guy sees a girl from his yard walking arm in arm with a foreign Caucasian, anger boils in him. Yes, the “black” is rich, but is it really true that Slavic women do not have pride, since they allow themselves to be pawed by all Dagestanis ?! At the same time, Caucasian girls will not allow a man without serious intentions to come within a shot distance. More precisely, her father and brothers will not let anyone near her. The result is yet another cognitive dissonance and an attack of xenophobia.

Only the Caucasians themselves provoke a negative attitude towards themselves. Alas. It provokes rednecks, positioning themselves as the masters of the stone jungle, and then interethnic anger punishes normal guys, who are only guilty of the Slavic neighbors because they have black hair and live in a traditional way. Only to punish the Dagestan drug lord - the hands of the nationalists are short, but to beat up a Caucasian who sells melons is easy.

The national question in Russia is getting more complicated every year. And I would like to optimistically hope that reason will one day win, but if only it wins before blood is shed. Before the enmity reaches the point of no return. It is true what they say - a bad peace is better than a good war, and you need to get along with your neighbors. But also not to allow lawlessness - neither on one interested side of the national question, nor on the other.

Relations between a Russian woman and a Dagestan man

Now there are about 20% of families - this is a marriage between people of different nationalities. As for creating a family with Russian people, about 85% of marriages of this kind are families in which the husband is Dagestan and the wife is Russian. Dagestan women marry Russian men much less often: such marriages make up only 15% of all marriages with Russians.

If you are interested in the relationship between a Russian woman and a Dagestani man, or if you are planning to connect your life with a Dagestani, some of our recommendations on what to prepare for and what to consider will come in handy.

The customs of the Dagestanis towards women

First, Dagestan is a multinational country. Avars, Kumyks, Russians, Tabasarans, Chechens, Nogais, Jews, Dargins, Lezgins, Laks, Azerbaijanis and other peoples live there. So initially it is worth knowing which nationality your chosen one belongs to, and studying the culture of this particular people.

Secondly, it is worth preparing for the fact that the groom's relatives may not be quite ready for an interethnic marriage. In Dagestan, marriages between equals are considered the strongest. Nationality, culture, social position, financial position, faith must be the same. Moreover, some Dagestanis are sure that a family should be created with a member of a kindred clan or fellow villager. Strangers have to fight longer to be accepted by the relatives of the future husband or wife from Dagestan.

In Dagestan, many marriages are still arranged by parents. So a marriage between a Russian woman and a Dagestani can ruin their plans. And although in recent years morals have become freer, it is important to take into account this feature and not be nervous if the parents at first try to arrange the marriage of their son with the bride that they themselves like. If they see that this is impossible, most likely they will not interfere with the choice of their son.

Some traditions for arranging a family in Dagestan are gradually fading into the past, but others appear, unexpectedly for everyone. For example, bride stealing is now rare. Brides are stolen only in villages far from cities, and even then more often with her consent. But in recent years, the tradition of paying kalym began to develop.

If your Dagestanian is the youngest son in the family, it is possible that you will have to wait a long time for the wedding. Relations between family members in Dagestan are built on respect for elders. And if your fiancé's older brothers are not yet married, then his family may ask you to wait until they arrange their lives. This does not mean at all that this family sees something seditious in the relationship between a Russian woman and a Dagestan man. This is just a tradition that is customary to observe in Dagestan.

Dagestan men: their attitude towards women

If you want to associate fate with a Dagestan man, you generally need to be prepared to participate in the performance of various rituals and traditions from time to time.

For example, in Dagestan, as in Europe, it is customary to test feelings. Before the wedding, it is customary to enter into an engagement, which can last several years. And only if the young do not change their mind over the years, the wedding is going and played.

Most weddings in Dagestan now do not differ from typical Russian weddings. This is a trip to the registry office, a feast, songs and dances. But the pre-wedding rituals of a Russian woman can surprise.

For example, in some villages of Dagestan, during the engagement period, the groom's relatives can arrange a "holiday of women." They come to the bride's house with suitcases full of gifts. Basically, these are jewelry and dresses, so there is a general fun when the bride and her bridesmaids have the opportunity to try on many different outfits without any shopping.

After the wedding, the wife of a Dagestani should show two main features: modesty and respect for elders. Modern Dagestan women in large cities can wear rather bold clothes and jewelry, but in villages and small towns it is still customary to walk in a long skirt or dress.

A wife must respect and obey her husband, but women's cunning is also expected of her. Unlike some Western cultures, in which manipulation by the wife is considered something indecent, among the Dagestanis it is not only acceptable, but desirable. Not by squabbles, not by hysterics and not by direct instructions, the wife of a Dagestani should seek her. In order to persuade her husband to the decision she needs, she must show cunning, charm and a remarkable mind.

Dagestanis, unlike many Russian men, devote much more time to raising children. For Russian women, this may seem unusual. However, after the birth of a child in a family where the father is Dagestan and the mother is Russian, surprises can await the woman. The word of a father for a child in a Dagestan family means a lot, and a woman may face the fact that over time her children will listen to their father much more than to herself.

This has its pluses and minuses. The advantage is that male upbringing forms a special type of adaptation to the world in a child - the ability to remake the world for himself, his needs. Cons - if the role of the mother in raising children is minimized, then children can grow up too demanding and aggressive. It is customary for Dagestanis that a woman herself knows how to defend her rights to take part in solving important issues regarding children. This may seem unusual to a Russian woman: in Russian families, the wife is endowed with such a right by default, and sometimes there is even a polar situation when the father is not included in the upbringing of children until adolescence.

If you profess the ideology of "child-free", that is, you do not want to have children, then your marriage with a Dagestan will probably not work out for you. Because in their culture, the basis of marriage is the birth and upbringing of children. And a woman who does not want to do this will always be perceived as inferior, and will quickly fall into outcasts.

Russian girl and Dagestan

today I talked with my girlfriend. she lives in another city

she said that she is now dating a Dagestan guy ..

the previous one was also a Dagestani. and the pre-previous one..

she was about to marry the previous one.

but he took her virginity and a few months later got engaged to a non-Russian girl

How often do you think such couples bring their relationship to the wedding?

there are just a lot of non-Russian boys they know, so they say that they would not marry Russian girls.

and I believe that love has no nation.

I had a girlfriend .. she was fooled by a hot man for 7 years. and when they started dating, he didn’t have a wife), he left, he came and brought his wife), so my father said and that’s it. and every Wednesday, if memory serves, for all 5 years my wife flew home))) in general, everyone understands the outcome, I think.

To be honest, I think that Russian girls do not care to mess with them at all !!

Let them marry their own and shake their rights in front of them.

I don't see anything wrong if people love each other, right down to nationality?

There were many such questions

Here is an example of such a wedding.

Although now. everything has changed a long time ago, Caucasian women have lost their upbringing and severity, and therefore, coming to Moscow or being born here, not in a believing family. lose all values ​​and associate themselves with everyone, not having a Caucasian or Russian subdivision.

And herself. Russian. I fell in love with a Caucasian, a Dagestan. Now he is my husband, we are expecting a child. And they are different from Russian men, of course I had no relationship with Russian guys. but I look at my girlfriends and the differences are significant :) though. again. each person is individual! Their hot blood, character, upbringing, respect for elders, many people need to learn this. Although the younger generation of Dagestanis pose for their nation, for which they get, if possible, on the ears from older brothers :)))

In general, a good nation, I love this people very much. I am very sorry that now such times and the Dagestanis are trying to make it look bad. My husband, his friends, relatives are great guys.

In business, specifically, Dagestanis are excellent partners. Honest, reliable. There is no division by nation.

And love is not a business - it's a different matter. The person must fit and match. Therefore, the question of nations is extremely acute. Do not take Russians as wives.

And if he is not a believer, then they really have strict customs (but not all of them) that they give out their sons only for their own. and even among themselves they have divisions: Dargins, Lezgins, Avars. and between themselves, too, can not allow marriage.

Everything is individual here.

When I myself began to communicate with my now husband (he is a Dagestani), I read many articles that they marry only their own. crying, worried.

But all the will of the Almighty!

And now I am married to my beloved man (Dagestani, and I am Russian!) And we are expecting a baby! Inshaallah.

Who are the Dagestanis and why do they behave "wrong"?.

Dagestanis - under this word, not some single nation is united, but a kind of conglomerate of the most diverse peoples, soldered together. What is their peculiarity, why can Dagestan be called a territory with a unique population? In this article you will find answers to all these questions.

National composition of Dagestan

The Caucasus is a unique place of contrasts of cultures and peoples. Mono-ethnic regions (for example, Chechnya and Ingushetia) peacefully coexist with multinational ones. According to rough estimates, 36 nationalities live in Dagestan.

At the same time, such a nationality as a Dagestan does not exist in nature. This word is unifying for many different peoples living on the territory of the republic. This situation can be called unique, because, as a rule, within the same subject, the titular people live - that is, the one that prevails in numbers and gives the name to the territory itself. In the case of Dagestan, this is not the case.

Despite the fact that many centuries ago various ethnic groups were formed on the Dagestan lands, in the official documents of the Russian Empire they were called: the mountain population - Lezgins, and the inhabitants of the plains - Turks. During the Caucasian War of 1817-1864, one more name could be found - the Chechens.

The first definitions were given mainly by Russian geographers and ethnographers studying the North Caucasus, and the second came into use among the Cossack settlers and later Russian regular troops. Only after Soviet power was established did detailed studies of the characteristics of a particular nationality begin.

The answer to the question of how many Dagestanis live in the region today is provided by Rosstat statistics. At the beginning of 2017, the number is just over 3 million people. However, it should also be taken into account that many local residents constantly live outside of it, while maintaining their traditions and national mentality. But even a hundred years ago, the numbers were disproportionately smaller.

So, according to the 1897 census, there were only about 600 thousand people in the republic. The reasons for the population boom in the early 20th century were:

  • a clear definition of the boundaries of the DASSR and the inclusion in its composition of small nationalities, which were previously simply not taken into account;
  • migration of the population from other regions to the cities of Dagestan;
  • traditional high birth rate.
  • In Soviet times, the birth rate in Dagestan was almost twice as high as it is today. There were an average of five children per family. Nevertheless, today the republic ranks fifth in the country in terms of the birth rate.

    In 2010, in the Constitution of Dagestan, the status of "state language" is assigned to 14 indigenous peoples:

    Not a single people of Dagestan can be called predominant in number, although the Avars can be called dominant in a certain sense. The fact is that the Avars include several ethnic groups, so they account for about 30% of the population of the entire republic:

    It should also be noted that Lezgins make up 13% of the population of the region, Dargins - 16.9%, Azerbaijanis - 4.5%, Laks - about 5.5%, Russians - 3.6%. Nogais, Aguls, Tsakhurs, Rutuls - on average, 1% of the total population of the region.

    In addition to those listed, there are 14 different small nationalities that are included in ethnic groups. So, the Dargins include:

    All these peoples and ethnic groups are recognized as indigenous. But besides them, Kazakhs, Jews, Uzbeks, Armenians, Georgians, Tatars, Belarusians, Ossetians, Persians also live in Dagestan. As you can see, the composition of the republic is incredibly diverse, and all these people are Dagestanis, because most of them are already several generations old, so this mountainous country became their homeland a long time ago.

    Of course, the inhabitants of Dagestan are united not only by a common territory, but also by religion. According to researchers, about 95% of the total population professes Islam of various currents. Of these, the vast majority are Sunnis, while Shiites make up only 4%. Almost 5% of Dagestanis are Christians. But here both Muslims and Orthodox coexist peacefully. Not for nothing, for example, the city of Derbent is called the "Jerusalem of the Caucasus" for tolerance and friendship of peoples.

    Dagestanis and Russians: a historical sketch

    The question may arise - why did the republican authorities officially recognize the Russian population as indigenous? The thing is that the Russians began to penetrate the territory of this region a long time ago. This was connected, first of all, with trade relations, since one of the caravan routes to Persia passed through Dagestan.

    Peter the Great visited Derbent at the very beginning of the 18th century, and at that time ethnic Russians were already present here, although there were very few of them. At the beginning of the 19th century, Cossack outposts and fortifications of the Russian army began to appear here.

    Of course, not all mountaineers were happy with the "northern guests". But, there were also those who went to the service of the Russian Tsar. Many local men were guides and supported the new order. However, there were also those who still considered themselves independent. In many ways, the incitement of Turkey and Persia, which had their own political and economic interests in this region, hindered the mutual understanding of the Dagestanis and Russians.

    As a result, all this unsteady social structure at the beginning of the 19th century led to a bloody war that lasted almost 50 years. A new state formation was created - the imamat, headed by the charismatic Imam Shamil.

    The conquest of the Caucasus was not easy for Russia. The highlanders felt independent, divided into small separate khanates, and the very concept of statehood was alien to them. Nevertheless, according to the results of the Gulistan Peace Treaty, Dagestan nevertheless became part of Russia. And this was the reason for the further rapprochement of the Dagestan peoples and the Russian population.

    Today, Dagestanis coexist peacefully with Russians, as well as with representatives of other nationalities. Moreover, inter-ethnic marriages have also become commonplace, which also strengthen national ties. However, often a sense of inner freedom in a Russian beauty can cause relationships to go wrong.

    It should be borne in mind that the difference in mentality here is still huge. And what attracts a Dagestan man to a Russian woman out of wedlock can alert him when he begins to think about creating a family with her. In general, the relationship between Caucasian guys and Russian girls is the topic of a separate article.

    On the other hand, many Slavic girls have an ambiguous attitude towards the Dagestanis. Features of the national character of a Caucasian man at a certain stage may not look so important for relationships. But when it comes to talking about the wedding, a woman begins to think and test her feelings for strength.

    She understands that most often she will be forced to rotate in a circle of people with a completely different mentality and with different views on family life. Not everyone is ready to put up with this state of affairs. It is no coincidence that some researchers and psychologists argue that such marriages in 80-90% of cases end in divorce and a complete break in relations.

    However, there are many examples of how such inter-ethnic marriages exist and are getting stronger day by day. A Caucasian and a Russian girl can create a real union, provided that their feelings are able to overcome the difference in worldviews. Again, the same religion (but not decisive) will be a big advantage.

    If a Christian wife is ready to convert to Islam for the sake of love, this is already half the battle. Such cases are not uncommon. But the opposite examples can be counted in units. Even a Muslim man who loves his Russian wife is unlikely to give up his religion.

    If a Slavic woman nevertheless decided to marry a representative of the mountains, she must understand that she will have to put up not only with many national traditions, but also with the way of life. Urban couples can still lead a completely secular lifestyle, but in the mountain villages a rigid patriarchy still reigns, and respect for elders is an integral feature of education in Dagestan. In such conditions, the girl will have to give up a short skirt and a lot of cosmetics. But, in such a family, children will know from birth that they are obliged to honor their father and mother.

    What are they - the modern inhabitants of the Land of mountains?

    In the central part of Russia, the attitude towards immigrants from Dagestan, to put it mildly, is ambiguous. And the reason for this, in part, lies in the national mentality. After all, what do residents of Russian cities most often say about Dagestanis? They are noted to:

    • behave aggressively towards the local population;
    • do not respect and do not observe the traditions and customs of other people;
    • make up the cells of the underworld;
    • not too willing to look for work, preferring to spend time idly.
    • It is clear that all these stereotypes have not developed in a vacuum. But, you should not row everyone with the same brush. Today, thousands of natives of the republic are working for the good of Russia: teachers, doctors, scientists, artists, athletes, etc. Many Dagestanis in Moscow adopt the local culture, honestly try to gain a foothold in the new territory, and are ready to find employment and work. However, the girls, having started relationships with young people from Dagestan, attribute the “unwillingness to work, but to have more money” almost to the features of the national character. Paradoxically!

      Another nuance of the mentality is the desire to prove that you are the most successful, richest, and, as they say, cool. No wonder they often joke: "If the show-offs shone, then in Dagestan there would always be white nights." For the sake of such a competition, Dagestan men (as a rule, young men) are ready for anything. Such arrogance, not confirmed by real achievements, is not to everyone's liking. Their innate courtesy in some cases can be replaced by rudeness towards the interlocutor, especially if he is not a Caucasian.

      We should not forget about another feature that is characteristic not only of the natives of the Republic of Dagestan, but also of almost all Caucasians - the clan system. The mountain way of life is so much “ingrained” into their genes that it sometimes cannot but surprise people of other nationalities. This is evidenced by many jokes about Dagestanis, most of which, to be fair, relate to all Caucasians and often simply artificially replace one nationality with another.

      True, clannishness in many situations brings tangible benefits to the Dagestanis themselves. Family and the desire to rally, especially in an alien environment, allows them to survive. Yes, there are ambiguous traits in the character of the highlanders. Apparently, because of this, some bloggers post their appeals to fellow countrymen on the Internet.

      But still, the majority of Dagestanis are good and hardworking people who were brought up in the best Caucasian traditions. And it is no coincidence that the Republic of Dagestan has been Russian for almost 150 years, becoming an important part of a large country and enriching it with its unique culture.

      The peoples of Dagestan gave the world and the country great poets (Rasul Gamzatov, Faza Alieva, etc.), scientists (for example, academician Abdusalam Huseynov - Director of the Institute of Philosophy of the Russian Academy of Sciences), more than 60 heroes of the Great Patriotic War (among them Abdulkhakim Ismailov, one of the first to hoist the banner Victory at the Reichstag), you can continue for a long time.

      The local wrestling school is known all over the world. One of the best wrestlers in history, a three-time Olympic champion, the famous Buvaysar Saitiev, was born here. It was judoists RD Mansur Isaev and Tagir Khaibulaev who brought Russia the first gold medals at the London Olympics in 2012.

      Our excursion will not be complete if we do not remember the folk crafts:

    • jewelry made by goldsmiths in the village of Kubachi;
    • daggers and knives of Kizlyar masters;
    • Untsukul art architecture (metal incision on wood);
    • Balkhar is an ancient center of ceramic and clay art;
    • Tabasaran carpets are recognized as the best in the world;
    • Tuesday, June 10, 2014

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      0 Lens (Elvira) / Dagestanis do not appreciate women

      There is an opinion that for a Dagestan man a woman is nobody. Her opinion does not play any importance, and that she should obey a man in EVERYTHING, obey him.

      IS THIS THE TRUTH OR A LITTLE LIKE OF THE PAST?

      No, this is not so .. Of course, I'm talking about a general trend. not about individual facts.

      A woman is the mother of his children and therefore is always respected. It’s just that Dagestan women, as a rule, are smart enough, wise and educated not to stick out their important place in the family especially publicly. They will never dispute a word or decision of a man in public. And for Russian women, this is often quite acceptable phenomenon. which is perceived by them as .. freedom.

      And if it's not about family, but about relationships? just about relationships?

      and if the girl is not a Muslim, but a Russian?

      it all depends on the girl. She just needs to know at least a little about the customs of Dagestan if she meets with a Dagestan.

      Behavior patterns are different and this must be taken into account. The fact that for Russian girls the norm may not be perceived at all as they see it. Although a lot depends on the upbringing of a man

      the author of the post thinks like everyone else. not oriental people. For me, the man in the family is the law!! papa is the law!! younger brother is the law!! you need to learn to trust your men, trust them, and will only subdue for pleasure. but why obey? not a good word, letting a man be above himself is a pleasure!!

      otherwise in Russia women complain that men don’t want to nail a nail in the house, well, let a man be in charge and he will do everything himself !! but how to talk, so the woman is the first, but how to work, she remembers who is the man in the house

      Yeah, you invented a lot of laws, and especially the manner of your message said a lot about you. Well, it doesn’t look like a meek girl at all, respecting laws.

      Long live the Dagestan Novodvorskaya))) just as crazy, and undeniably impassable little reasonable))) stamp on the stamp, absolute isolation from real life and the complete absence of a stirring of thought))))))))))) write maryamushka, write . we will have fun here to laugh at the next funny stupidity.

      again a parade of templates and stamps.

      And Russians are different and not all Dagestan men are noble and smart to obey them with joy.

      Yes, there are different types of families.

      if a Dagestani loves his woman, then she is everything to him. if not, no one

      I agree with _Lady_ (***): if she loves, she is everything for him and for her sake he will do everything and even against everyone.

      Elvira, don't listen to who says what. Does your man appreciate you? If yes, then be happy with him, but if not, then this is simply not your man, and it's not that he is a Dagestan, it's just not your destiny.

      And, in general, in general, they treat women with respect, and Russians too, if the woman herself behaves with dignity.

      But everything is solved. if there is a desire and a real feeling

      All my Dagestan acquaintances value their wives very much. And the further - the more. In most families, a woman dominates, but somehow unobtrusively. This does not harm the interests of the spouse. But when it comes to some important cardinal decisions, the first word here belongs to a man.

      A woman should not obey anyone. what do the opinions of men or lads-law mean? What is the Middle Ages. In a family, both opinions are important! Here are some statements:

      1. There is no Decree in Nature for a woman to be tied only to the hearth! Verily, she is the Mother-Guardian of the World. Therefore, there is not a single area in life where a man could reign undividedly, it is precisely this undivided reign of one Beginning that is the product of a dark era. Creativity is equally embedded in both Beginnings. In a man, it was more clearly revealed only because a woman was deprived of the same education and the same opportunities to exercise her creative forces in a wide field.

      2. There is no Decree in Nature for a woman to be tied only to the hearth! Verily, she is the Mother-Guardian of the World. Therefore, there is not a single area in life where a man could reign undividedly, it is precisely this undivided reign of one Beginning that is the product of a dark era. Creativity is equally embedded in both Beginnings. In a man, it was more clearly revealed only because a woman was deprived of the same education and the same opportunities to exercise her creative forces in a wide field.

      3. A cynical attitude towards a woman, belittling and humiliating her are possible only among the peoples who are leaving.

      4. Precisely, they think in vain that now there is no legalized social slavery. And the most egregious of them is the slavery of thought and the slavery of women. Is it possible that the whole significance of a woman should be reduced only to the role of a puerperal, and a nurse, and an amusement of a man? But what a low opinion of himself a man, if his amusement should be deprived of higher mental development. But one cannot go against evolution, and we already know how dear each such resistance is to humanity.

      5. There is an ancient saying - "where women are revered and protected, [prosperity] reigns and the gods rejoice."

      6. I believe that a woman should be even more educated and more cultured than a man, because it is she who lays the first concepts of statehood in her family.

      7. Wrong book statements that all Religions and Teachings are full of judgments about the lower nature of women. All such judgments in them are precisely those distortions and additions that were later introduced by those who assert power out of self-interest and gross ignorance. Truly innocent of this flagrant ignorance are the Great founders of Religions and Teachings. Let us take into account how many dishonest greedy hands and over how many millennia these Teachings have passed!

      8. Cosmic justice is great! By humiliating a woman, a man has humiliated himself! In this we must look for an explanation of the paucity of the manifestation of male genius in our day.

      9. My heart hurts so much for women, and especially seeing how many more women humiliate themselves and delay their evolution. Now is a heroic time and women-ascetics are needed in every sense and in all fields.

      10. I believe so much in women's common sense, in women's magnetism, in a woman's heart and the ability to selfless work. Let us not forget that a woman is commanded to save the world.

      You can still translate the statements of different people, but there will be no sense if a woman shifts responsibility to others. So Elvira, go for it. All in your hands!

      Love index: 1.47 (417/284)

      Previously, I treated the Dagestanis without droveria. Now, on the contrary, I love the Caucasian nations and their laws. I had a Dagestan boyfriend in a sanatorium, he is so good and his friends too. Do not generalize the Caucasian nations. There are bad people, but not bad people, I love Dagestanis and I don't care what others say))

      Dagi fellows, friendly all and not to share. Although there are about 40 nations in Dagestan. We Vainakhs should learn to be as friendly as they are, because we, unlike them, are one nation and one people! Doug handsome! Not a few of them are real men! We Vainakhs respect real men, even if he is African or Chinese! You are our brothers, because you are primarily Mumins, and because we have always lived side by side and helped each other in trouble by sacrificing ourselves! Stay like this always! And know that the Vainakhs (Chechens and Ingush) love you!

      I myself am Azerbaijani from Baku. I want to say that I respect and love the Dagestan people very much. for the fact that, firstly, they are Muslims, like all Caucasian peoples live with their own traditions, a very brave, worthy people who deserve only respect. and to those who write on the right column, I want to say don’t write nonsense. There is no bad nation, there are bad people. Respect to you my brothers Dagestanis.

      I do not like Dagestanis, I love specific people whom I know! I do not like the nation, even though he is a Dagestan! A nation cannot be loved, everywhere there are dregs of society, bastards! I don't care what nation a person is, the main thing is what he is! There are many good people, both Russians and Dagestanis! And in the next column, everyone writes, here are the Dags, such and such, although some Dagestanis have not seen, who cannot distinguish a Tajik or Uzbek from a Dagestan. According to statistics, every 4th Russian does not know where Dagestan is in general, and that he is a subject of the Russian Federation! They are watching this Jewish TV that plays us for some kind of purpose! Do not watch TV, take it and go to Dagestan, it's no more expensive than going to Turkey or drinking from Egypt! You will all see what people, what atmosphere, what attitude! I have childhood friends, two brothers Vova and Pavel, from Makhachkala, wonderful guys, I'm glad that I know them! Look at the person and not at the nation, I repeat once again, there are bastards everywhere!

      I don’t know where to write), good or bad xs, I never dealt with them in a relay (and maybe I did, but I didn’t know that he was a dug), one friend (I won’t go into details who) works with them in Moscow prim came out of their auls dagas with brothers, white as Russians, so the good guys say so), I know in the media in what form I show them, but there are some, but something is not clean here, it seems to me that everything is greatly inflated, I myself am a little Nazi did not become like seeing what they were doing (from the media), then somehow cooled down.

      Vadius, I can say one thing - I hate such people! Why they act this way, I can't say. It seems to me that these Dags who beat passers-by are simply uneducated and morally infringed people))) I want to say to all Russians that you do not know our people, you do not know our traditions and virtues. You are deeply mistaken when you say that we are "uneducated, hairy and ill-mannered people." This is not true. I myself am a Dagestan, a Kumyk by nationality, and I have absolutely nothing against the Russians! On the contrary, I really respect and love your people, and I have a lot of Russian friends))) Before, I didn’t even know that you (Russians) were so negative about us. And now, when I read the right column, I was very shocked. And if you are so sure that we are so bad, then go to Dagestan and you will see the opposite.

      calm down guys! What are you most stupid, Russian! in order to make you respect yourself first of all, there is no need, for example, to insult, condemn behind your back, or go out into the streets in droves and beat Asians, Caucasians, etc. from this respect for such people will not increase the level of culture both in Russia and in the Caucasus in decline, but one should not always look for extremes in everything only in the Caucasus! you need to understand one thing - there are no bad nations, there are bad people! there are scum in every nation, guys!

      I am Russian myself. My boyfriend is Dagestan (Lezgin), we have been dating for 3 years. I used to hate the Dagovs (according to rumors) .. although I didn’t know them .. I respect them. They are very brave and determined. And here, forgive me, RAGS, not men .. We have Russian girls take on a lot. smoke thump. At the age of 13, they sleep with just anyone .. and in Dagestan, girls are more modest and smarter .. our girls want equality .. so Rasul (my boyfriend says) what if a girl is for equal rights .. so let her go to the army)) what am I with him I completely agree. Despite all this, I love my country

      I know a family of Dagestanis-Laks are wonderful people. Calm, decent, able to stand up for themselves, with self-esteem. The head of the family is a dentist, a conscientious, calm, benevolent person, supports the family, builds the future of children. The upbringing is strict, but without shouting, without humiliation, without servants, children can do everything, have their own responsibilities in the family. Patients and patients adore him, neighbors love and respect him. And there are fools everywhere, and there are many of them among Russians. The way of life of this family would be envied by any decent Russian woman, because. they have all the material and households. the man decides the issues, and the woman is responsible for the order and satiety in the house, the upbringing of children. They live economically, calmly, do not show off, like ours. He can drink with the peasants of the neighbors, but everything is in moderation and without consequences. The most interesting thing: if he is going to go "to the left", he will first inform his wife about this.

      I also have a young man from Dagestan, he is kind, appreciates, loves me, and not when he will not allow anyone to offend me, they respect their other half. What difference does it make which nation, the main thing is that a person be good. And the Dagestanis, sometimes better than our Russian guys, if you look at ours, they always thump forever, or drug addicts (I definitely don’t want to associate my life with such! I’m extremely glad that in my life there is “my Dagestan”, and there is no one I won't change it.

      There are enough freaks everywhere, as they say "There is a freak in the family." Therefore, I do not consider it right to judge the entire nation by individuals, at least stupid. As for the right column, I want to remind Dagestan is the Russian Federation and they are the same citizens of Russia. Do it guys, it'll be alright!

      I don't like dugs, but I hate them. These people make me laugh, especially the youth. Who is not with us is under us and blah blah. It's a shame that some Armenians forget kochari and dance lezginka. Well, in general, the mentality is not bad, I like that many show off (hee hee)

      Indeed, there is something to love Dagov and at the same time despise Russian whores. 1. For self-respect 2. For the indestructible desire to defend this respect in front of others, while Russians simply do not consider it necessary to waste time on such "nonsense" After all, whatever you say, Russians are a smarter nation, but unfortunately this harms us. 3. For an ADEQUATE (not serious consumer) attitude towards Russian sluts, and at the same time a respectful attitude towards their women. GENUINELY Russian soulfulness, tenderness, Russian slut pigs perceive as weakness "Man is a rag" I have always been evoked a feeling of disgust by women who understand only animal strength In Russia, there are a majority of them, I personally saw for myself no sense of self-respect one animals. Apparently, real sincere Russians no longer have a place in Russia among animal sluts, this is a fact.

      Another advantage of the Dagovs is that they know how to make the Russian slut appreciate EVERY gesture, while the Russian Vanya will do it like an elephant - and the Russian pig-fucking will not notice this

      Caucasian sluts are highly valued, they are in the ass - as if to their home, and forward - a virgin. Sorry for the details.

      I am Russian, I live in the city of Lesozavodsk. I am familiar with one Dagestani, he is Lezgin by nationality. I have known him for a long time. He invited me to visit him in Dagestan, in the city of Derbent. I was visiting him for about a month, and I will say that hospitality is necessary to study with them. Very hospitable people, his family greeted me like a native. And talking with his friends, I did not notice any hostility in my direction. Yes, of course there are cattle among them, so there are enough of them everywhere. There was a case that a couple of bulls they tried to run into me, like that you lost in Dagestan and all that. So this friend whom I came to, with his brother, attacked these goats, saying that I was a guest and no one dares to offend me. I came from there with good emotions and very happy, that I am friends with a Dagestan. They are true friends. You should not strictly judge the people by some individuals.

      My God. how much pathos from the next column. This is where so much hate comes from. Behind my shoulders are two marriages with Russian men and one marriage with a real Dagestan MAN. So both of our Russian Vanka (I deliberately write with a small letter) are the most ordinary primitive males who did not want to work and at the same time wanted to have a lot of money and dreamed of millions, lying on the couch with a bubble of vodka. And my current husband is a Dagestani, not only does he not drink, does not smoke, loves and knows how to work, he also carries me in his arms. For several years of living together, not a single rude word, he never hit me, but from ex-husbands I endured beatings almost every day, but I generally keep quiet about mats. He does not force me to stand at the stove 24 hours a day and does not limit my freedom. I do ordinary housework and do it with pleasure for my beloved man. and he appreciates it and pays me the same. I am provided from head to toe. And my child from the second marriage is the same. so huh huh, this is still to be seen.)

      There is no such nation as the Dagestanis. There are many nationalities in Dagestan - Tabasarans, Avars, Lezgins, Tats, Jews, Chechens, Laks, Jews, etc., all of them are Dagestanis. But in general, I treat them well. I have many relatives from Dagestan (mostly Avars, Laks and Kumyks), my great-grandmother is Avar, and my best friends are Andi. Dagestanis know how to be friends and will never leave a friend in trouble. And in general, they will not leave you in trouble. Very brave and freedom-loving, especially the Avars. However, all the peoples in the Caucasus are brave and freedom-loving, but the Dagestanis and Chechens are bolder and more freedom-loving than all in the Caucasus.

      Because I love one of them 🙂

      How can you not love them!? They, unlike Russian boys, know how to treat girls! My boyfriend was Russian, he constantly smoked and drank hunting in front of me! Then he called and said prostitute where are you. Then he called me names and Nurslan stood up for me, he drove him away and walked me home, I gave him my phone, he called in the evening and offered to meet. He gave me such a bouquet of roses! I took him to a restaurant, drove a car! Well, I gave it to him on the third date, so what. But he has more dignity than any Russian guy! I tell you this with responsibility! He also has a brother, Gasan! Nurslan left when I stayed with Gasan! Ey also had to give, but I even liked it! He is 32 years old, he knows how to satisfy a woman! But Russians only know how to drink and smoke and beat women! That's why I love Daghistani!

      Well, how not to love Dagestanis and Caucasian men in general? Somewhere until the age of 15 I was a straight man of pure water, but then my childhood friend introduced me to Damir. Even at the first meeting, I realized that not only did a spark pass between us, but whole lightning flashed between us! Well, I found him in Mail.ru, added him as a friend, we talked for about a month. And somewhere after a month and one week, it turned out that we were alone near my house, when we already wanted to go home. it was about 12 o'clock, then everything happened: we looked into each other's eyes for a long time, I looked into his black eyes, and he into mine blue ones. well. we kissed. It was as if I was blocked, we immediately went up to me and made love in the shower - it was wonderful! And I've been gay ever since. And Damir left me the next week, but he can be understood. Dagestanis are beautiful and loving people!

      Salam aleykom! Hello! I was born and live in Dagestan all my life. I am Russian by nationality. I am surrounded here by many people of a different faith and nation, but here we do not have any conflicts on this basis. My best friend is Chechen, I know him since childhood, I respect my nation, but if I have to fight Russians for my friend, I will do it. Dagestanis and Chechens differ from Russians in that they do not live each for themselves, they help each other. Recently, I was in Novosibirsk, I didn’t meet more than one Dagestanis there, and what I saw there amazed me that almost everyone was drinking. I went out into the street in the evening and I see that every second person comes with a bottle of beer. At the stadium, I met only Uzbeks playing football there. There were no Russian athletes there at all. Yes, and some people will not give up a place in the queue to grandmother, let alone a seat on the bus. I am disappointed. I love Russia very much, but I cannot love the people I saw there. Change so that you are respected.

      I am Russian. My husband is a Dagestan-Lezgin. I have no parents, and before meeting him I led a wild life - drinking, partying, clubs, friends - girlfriends. When we met, I was driving drunk and cheerful from the next birthday. I didn’t even understand that he was not Russian. I flirted and offered to meet myself, after a week of dating, he forbade me to drink and go to clubs. We got married 1.5 years later. We are complete opposites: I am a blue-eyed, short blonde, he is a swarthy, tall brunette. , but at the beginning of the relationship, I decided to test him, declared that at 2 months of pregnancy it was not from him, to which he replied that our parents gave us life, and the worse we are, we will grow up. Love and be loved.

      Ismail. Avar. Why did I let you go right away? After all, there was one more day left. Ismail. Delicate and determined. Ardent and timid. Gentle and persistent. Shy and shameless. Ismail. Your name is a song, your voice is music, your body is a dream. Why did I let you go right away? Now it's all. I want only one thing: if you ever think of me, to be able to feel it. PS. I understand that this is not quite the topic, but I no longer have the strength to keep it to myself. I want to believe that there are many worthy people among the Dagestanis. I dedicate this song to all of them.

      The one who hates the Dags was simply offended and humiliated by them because of his weakness and sloppiness. Push-button heroes sit here and write dirty tricks incognito. I am married to a Dagestani, he is a wonderful husband and father, respects my family and friends. On the part of his relatives, I see a good attitude and help.

      I am Russian, I have been dating a Dagestani for 1.5 years. I always treated other nationalities with interest - faith, culture, traditions. I travel a lot, I can say one thing - each is individual and interesting! Whether it's a creative Frenchman, a charismatic Spaniard or a temperamental horseman. Moreover, we are neighbors! Moreover, we are Russia, one country! What's up guys? As for the Dagestan man specifically, my man keeps his promises, does not talk his tongue, for me he is a support and support, including in material terms. I want to say that Dagestan humor is excellent, I always laugh to tears, uncomplicated and kind. Dagestanis know how to laugh at themselves. They are optimists. I think everyone should be themselves. Do not bend, do not get angry, do not row everyone one size fits all. Every family has its black sheep. There will be both bad and good people. In this case, you need to understand people, and not nationalities. Yes, there are families where Russian girls are against - marry yours and that's it. But this is not for everyone.

      Well, hate is loudly said, but there is hostility. Because not every one of their nation is a normal balanced person. Most of them do not appreciate Russians, nor many other nations, and they always get away with everything, this is proved by both the media and life. Such cases as in the Saratov gymnasium (where the Caucasian students called their older supporters, put 5! children on their knees and made the Caucasian force shout!) or the sensational Dag wedding, as a punishment of 1000 rubles. What is it? And this is Chaos on our land. These are only the most famous cases, going into details you can find out much more facts. After that, the next question arises automatically - "Why love them?". If the Russians were a united, cultured people, then I think the government would not allow this. But, unfortunately, drug addicts, alcoholics, whores and other trash remained here. The elite does not have time to deal with our destiny, we can only admire how skillfully they sell everything. And the homeland becomes where the ass is warm.

      I hate Dagestanis with every fiber of my soul. Before the army, he treated them normally, but when he saw them as they were, he hated them fiercely. Separately, I would like to say about the girls who meet with them. Of course, I understand that among Russian guys there is nothing to choose from lately. But I myself in the army witnessed how the Dagestanis said about Russian girls, that they are all whores and only know how to spread their legs, that their girls are all better. Dagestanis love only their people, they say that they respect strength and despise weakness. In this I support them. But when I see how 4 Dagestanis are beating 1 guy, what can be a conversation about strength and dignity. One Dagestan will never get into a fight if he does not have support. Dagestanis themselves incite ethnic hatred by their behavior, blaming others for it. I don't know what they are trying to achieve and where it will lead. If they want war, they will get it.

      Russian March. Notes of a non-Russian person. “Not giving up, they fired back to the last bullet, and then blew themselves up and the enemy with grenades.” Familiar? This is how Russian soldiers fought in the last two wars in the Caucasus. Driven to the limit, hardened by blood and malice, by the readiness to defend their land, Russian soldiers always fight like this. I know this for sure, because in Afghanistan I fought next to them, and even earlier in other wars, my grandfather was a Tatar and a Muslim, and my father was a Tatar and a Muslim, because we ourselves, in our deepest essence, are exactly the same . Answer yourself, are the Russian people, their warriors ready to die for their beliefs, worthy of respect? The best representatives of their peoples, the color of the nation. People for whom their convictions, their faith is stronger than the fear of death. We are already standing face to face, ready to kill. What for?

      Russian March. “Don't be fooled. The Russians will not kneel, they will not give up their land and become manure on this land. They will not become slaves. Do not judge the Russian people only by corrupt and intimidated officials. Don't you have your corrupt bureaucrats? Do not think that the entire Russian people is like a shaking homeless alcoholic or drug addict. Don't you have your addicts? Do not think that the Russian people are like a pathetic prostitute that you have in all holes for a couple of bucks, or even for nothing. Do not judge Russian soldiers by the downtrodden and disenfranchised boys who were drafted into the army and who are betrayed, abandoned to the mercy of fate by the command staff, dutifully endure all humiliations. The Russian people have already embarked on the path of a new awareness of their blood unity, and the words have already been spoken: “Rus. War territory. There is nowhere to retreat." Do not think that corrupt, cowardly, power that has lost contact with its people will be eternal, it will be swept away. And then woe to those who are accustomed to consider Russians as slaves!”

      I am Russian! And I would like to ask the Dagestanis! If I wanted to choose a wife from the Caucasus, what nationality in the Caucasus has blue eyes and red hair?

      I do not like Dags and other nationalities. but I'm not saying that the Russians are good. example: how many climbed the contact, observed the same picture. I will not describe it, because everyone knows. but among Russians, Ukrainians or Tatars, one can find quite adequate profiles like - I study, I drink, I know how to do this and that (when contacted, they give good advice). no show-offs and "their own". and so, recently shared algorithm of collision: 1) to run into; if the mission is failed, then proceed to the next 2) let's "brother"; Well, if this one, then 3) agree. their gorgeous girls are a separate issue. PS: being with them is impossible. brutal black stubble. stereotyped facial features and bestial gaze.

      Fasting does not apply to people of the older generation, they are mostly normal, adequate people. I lived for 5 years in one of the settlements of KHMAO-UGRA. To begin with, there is an incredible mix of all kinds of confessions and nationalities: Uzbeks, Tajiks, Armenians, Azerbaijanis, Kurds, Chechens, Tatars and, of course, Dagestanis. Everyone lives quite peacefully, the only exceptions are the dagi. More than once I witnessed how a crowd of dugs attacked one, beat him. Russian women are divided into 2 categories: whores, and whores who are queens. If they liked the girl, they would besiege until the victory, they could just put them in the car and they were like that. And it doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend or not, it's fresh meat. Many normal guys left irrevocably under their pressure. AMAZINGly greyhounds bespredelschiki- that's my opinion. I do not suffer from attacks of Nazism, my husband is an Azerbaijani, a worthy respected person. I never heard from him about my mother's mother. It's a pity that it is so, but we ourselves are to blame.

      Probably, among them there are good people, educated, cultured. But most of them are nonhumans. They do not give a damn about the laws, they believe that they are above all. When they are alone, they still behave all right, and as a group they turn into cattle. One of the worst things is that they are taught with their mother's milk to hate people with a different faith.

      The sad thing is that the Russians have a poorly developed sense of national unity, they are too kind and forgive a lot of things to everyone. The bad thing is that the Russians allowed themselves to create a criminal Muslim enclave on their territory (ChR DR Ingushetia) - if the Russian government continues to encourage this criminal lawlessness due to the permissiveness of Caucasians, namely (Dags, Chechens, Ingush), then this may end in disaster, and then the already enraged Russian bear will not be stopped, and this beast is very dangerous in a rage. The Russian authorities need to radically change their policy regarding these three small (Chechnya, Dagestan, Ingushetia) very proud, but absolutely useless national republics. I don’t understand why the rest of Russia feeds and tolerates these wild, brutalized peoples when they hate Russians at the genetic level. We need strength, will, power and order. You need to think with your head and work gentlemen officials, and not just steal budget money, while you hold power.

      I don't care about the Dags if they are located south of the Terek. Let them live as they want. I really hate dirty whores - inkwells, these scum really should not exist in nature.

      Recently I’m driving a car, it seems that a shabby seven starts to drive off from the side of the road without looking, under my breath. Okay, I taxied, calmly go further. The traffic light, the same seven, goes around everyone in the oncoming lane and starts to squeeze in a row, like "I overtook everyone, I'm the very first", - again it turns out in front of me, so brazenly, waving your arms, shouting out the window (there were two of them in the car) you such and such what x ** do not see we turned on the turn signal. I answer them (also through the window) learn how to drive first, then get behind the wheel, well, away we go. They jump out of the car, waving their hands like slow down, we will educate you. I brake, calmly turning to the side of the road. They run up (I write in a continuous text without punctuation) well, what a goat we’ll talk about, we’ll stick you into the deflection, as we want and we’ll ride. I'm not a wrestler, but the guy is wiry, a pear and a horizontal bar are my favorite shells. In short, the Russians won. What surprised me was that several drivers stopped and helped me. Slavs go in for sports and don't be afraid of anyone. Together we will win.

      I hate the Dagestanis, it’s not that of course, and there is no nation of Dagestanis. There are Avars, Tabasarans, Laks, Dargins, Kumyks, Lezgins. and many more. There are good people among them, but mostly scumbags and illiterate monkeys, the women in the right column (especially Russians) are just fucked up. no words

      Olya97, if the Dagestanis respected you, you would be alone, and the rest would even dare to think about sex with you. THEY FUCKED YOU BECAUSE THERE WERE NO WHERE TO GO AND THEN MAKE YOU FUCKED. XXHAAAAAAHHHH she fell for roses. you are a disgrace to the great Russian people. I fucked with the Russians, and so they didn’t let me sleep, and their penis is big. There are big and small ones in any nation

      I can't argue there are good people everywhere and their own shit is everywhere! but among this nation I have met few good ones! namely, that in the Army they are just stupidly lazy and arrogant to the point of unbearability! They want everything to be their way! I have a couple of Dagestan acquaintances who are very cunning, arrogant and rotten people! believe my experience! I met with a Dagestan woman for 2 months, and then I got a lot of problems on my own head! do not communicate with them! there are very few good people in this nation!

    While we are here defending our right to the freedom and independence of a modern woman (and at the same time we are afraid to overdo it in our struggle), Anastasia Gosteva was among the 800 guests at the Dagestan wedding in Makhachkala. And she shared her experience with us.

    The first day. Issue price

    Two silvery Mercedes rush along the mountain serpentine - honking to passing cars, cutting each other and slowing down dangerously close to the edge of the road. One of them jumps out into the oncoming lane and, in order to avoid a collision with a Zhiguli car flying towards him, slips between the checkpoint and the police fence. Miraculously, the surviving traffic cops do not try to catch up with the offender. A wedding in Dagestan is sacred. As long as everyone is alive, the Avars have the right to fair horse riding.

    In addition to Mercedes, the wedding cortege consists of a Land Cruiser and a Cayenne, which, like in Moscow, comes as standard with a blonde in the cabin. True, here the blonde sits behind the wheel and in terms of dashing driving is not much inferior to men.

    Rubles in a box and in a line

    While the happy parents of Aida accept congratulations, at the very entrance, quietly and imperceptibly, perhaps the most important action takes place. At the set table, spreading a lined school notebook between plates and glasses, the bride's relatives collect money, putting it in a large plastic bag and entering the income data in neat handwriting - such and such gives young people 600 rubles, may Allah bless them for many years and send them they have as many sons as there were hairs in the beard of the Prophet. The same notebook, but in a box, will appear later at the groom's wedding. A Dagestan wedding is an honest taking of money from the population. It is believed that the minimum amount that is decent to give is 500 rubles. But most guests give 1000 or more. Moreover, if a guest is invited to both weddings, to the bride and the groom, he carries cash both there and there. If the families are not very wealthy, then the money collected at the bride's wedding remains with the bride's parents, and the money collected at the groom's wedding remains with the groom's parents. Those who live in abundance give everything to the young. Considering that a modest wedding involves at least 700-800 guests, young people never have to start the household from scratch.

    In addition, all the money that the guests throw during the dance of the bride with the groom and the bride with the male guests also remains with the newlyweds. As a result, another 150-200 thousand are usually recruited.

    - Listen, Marat, what is the average salary in Dagestan? I ask the groom's uncle as we turn off the gas to take a look at the Buynaksky pass. Falcons soar in a dazzling blue sky. The wind smells like the Caspian. Low mountains, overgrown with dilapidated small flowers, lie in large folds, like sharpei skin. From this serenity, media reports that Wahhabi militants hide here and blow up someone once a week seem like ridiculous propaganda.

    - Well, ordinary people have 5 thousand.

    - So, the parents of the newlyweds are not simple people?

    - No, that you, of course, are simple. The groom's father is a taxi driver. Mom doesn't work. The bride's father is an engineer, and her mother is a cook in a cafe. So no one lives on a salary, everyone is spinning. And then, they prepare for the wedding from the birth of the children.

    Three hours earlier, 350 people had gathered in the Venice banquet hall in the center of Makhachkala. At tightly packed tables, men and women sit separately, lapped together like peas in a pod. Old women in national dress and headscarves eat khinkal and look at the youth. Youth shoots eyes on the sides. Most of the girls, despite 43 degrees in the shade, are long and dark. From all sides comes: “Did you see how he looked at me? Whose relative is this? On the tables are mineral water, fruits, dolma envelopes oozing oil, and salads that are almost homemade in appearance and taste. Alcohol is not visible, but if the girls ask for champagne, they immediately bring it and pour it. And the girls, having sipped a couple of sips, go dancing in a flock.

    At the head of the table in the center of the hall are the newlyweds, Omar and Aida. This is the wedding of the bride. Her parents and relatives, girlfriends and neighbors are here. From here the groom will take her to his wedding - to Buynaksk, to his guests and his family. In the meantime, the orchestra plays the lezginka and the toastmaster goes into eloquence, announcing the next number - the dance of the oriental beauty Leila, - and a girl of about 10 years old appears in the aisle between the tables, famously moving her hips and jingling her monists.

    But now the bride and groom get up from the table - it's time to go to the second wedding. And soon the cortege rushes, deafeningly honking, through the streets of Makhachkala - past billboards, on which the Butyrka group presents "the best hits in 10 years", past the Phoenix grilled chicken, the Magic Donald restaurant and the Arafat Islamic clothing store , past the Khrushchev five-story buildings, tiled in the Arabic style, and cows grazing by the roadside - the east is the east.

    And when, an hour later, we find ourselves in another banquet hall with shifted tables, khinkal, Pinocchio soda, but now expensive alcohol, everything repeats itself - toasts, lezginka and money flying up.

    Aida steps into the center of the circle in a latte-coloured dress with puffed sleeves. Her face, white with powder, is almost motionless, red curls fall on bare - for the last time - shoulders. Without looking at anyone, she moves between the men who jump out in front of her in a dance. Crumpled hundred-ruble notes fall underfoot, and children rush after them, as if after balls at Wimbledon.

    Second day. Men and women

    Initially, Aida was not going to marry Omar. They met a year ago - Aida's neighbor married a friend of Omar. And then he began to look after her, and she realized: “He is my man. It was my decision." In Dagestan, where arranged marriages still exist, this is important.

    She speaks the truth or observes the tradition - do not understand. Local girls are brought up with the idea that men should achieve them. “If the guy wants to, he will figure out how to find me,” Aida's friend explains to me. Such confidence can exist only in a city where everyone is brothers, kunaks and neighbors to each other.

    Are you supposed to be afraid of your husband? I ask Aida.

    - Afraid? - she's confused. No, you have to be respectful. The family gives a sense of security. We are taught from childhood that marriage requires patience and humility. Every girl knows that she will grow up, get married and take care of her husband.

    I am also assured that every girl knows that her husband will be the only man in her life - local women hold on to their innocence as firmly as men hold on to their oil. Which is logical: both are the privatization of mineral resources, an irrefutable argument in future matchmaking.

    Dad, give me!

    The issue of dowry and bride price is discussed during the matchmaking. The groom's parents must provide young people with housing - a separate apartment or their own rooms in the house. They also buy jewelry for the bride and a whole suitcase of clothes. “They gave me a Black Lama mink coat - knee-length, with a hood, very beautiful, and also gold - a chain, bracelets, a ring and earrings with diamonds, boots, shoes and bags, underwear, in general, all clothes - winter and summer, - lists Aida . - Dressed from and to, so I did not even take anything from my parents' house. Over time, of course, I will go there, pick up something, distribute something, but so far I don’t need anything.”

    The bride's parents buy furniture - a kitchen, a bedroom, a living room - and everything that is needed in the household: from bed linen to a toilet brush. Start saving money from the birth of children. Mothers of little boys proudly say that they have already prepared all the gold for future wives.

    Dagestan men are so severe that... But, by the way, is it really so? In fact, the system of fears of the Dagestanis is multipolar and quite stable. I'll explain why.

    Of course, any Dagestani, within the limits of statistical error, of course, will say that he is not afraid of anything. But that would be foolishness. Our brother is afraid. Not physical suffering, no ozone holes, spiders, atomic bomb, war on two fronts, information blockade. No no no! Everything is pretty simple. The fears of a man lie in a completely different plane.

    I assure you, it's about education, responsibility and self-esteem. Three whales that give us starting points. We don't need to invent new trajectories.

    A shame. Contempt. Main fear. System. Soaked up with blood. There is nothing worse for a man than disrespect and shame. You can lose an important dispute or a match, a battle, fuck everything in the world, including a house, a girlfriend (wife) and a car, but the main thing is to remain in the eyes of others man in black . That is, in the mode of "honor and respect." And if they say a word for you, and in the area they say that you are the right kid, you can handle everything, everything can be overcome. Image warms not only the soul. Image works for you. It doesn't matter how or when. Reputation is easier to lose than to build, said Samuel Butler. Today's Dagestani blindly follows this rule and adds: "Do it right - it will be fine."

    Tears.A man is pathologically afraid of tears. His. Aliens. Especially women's. He is completely unfamiliar with tears and does not understand what to do, how to react ... Tears, this is more for the female part. A whole art with which a man, as a rule, is not familiar. A man can know how the Neapolitan "Camorra" differs from the Latin American "Mara Salvatrucci", about how Boccaccio, Chaucer, Robert Henryson and Shakespeare interpreted the image of Cressida in different ways, extract the square root in the mind, and talk about the dangers and benefits of autoimmune drugs, but he knows nothing about tears. Absolutely nothing.

    Get to hell.Amazing property! In the Dagestanis, at the same time, there is a craving (magnetic downright) for tyranny, recklessness, the desire to destroy and go beyond (which is, that is, you must agree) and bravado ... and a striking fear of the other world. We are terribly afraid of going to hell and this is the same cold shower that sometimes acts soberingly. And the man wonders what he will say Up there when asked about sins. Unfortunately, for the true adepts of chaos, this is not the strongest argument. “I want to go to heaven, but there are more acquaintances in hell” - this is what, unfortunately, many people think about when they go out onto the porch in the morning. Especially knowledgeable quote Shakespeare: “Hell is empty. All demons are here."

    Absence of children. Fine mental adjustment in such cases fails and all light becomes darkness. The desire to be a father is something that a Dagestan does not need to instill. About how he will play with his child (“it doesn’t matter what gender the child will be, the main thing is that the boy is healthy!”) hide and seek, football or go to watch a match at the stadium, a Dagestanian dreams from 10, not from 15, ok, about 18 years old.

    Poverty.Everyone is afraid of her. The topography of the consciousness of the Dagestanis gives a clear answer - family wealth is a primary concern ... not to mention the car that any representative of the stronger sex dreams of. If all this results in a planted black prior and driving around the city at night in search of adventurous disasters and man-made disasters, then we are not talking about buffoonery (one of the main vices of a Dagestan man, about which it is worth writing a treatise or scientific dissertation). A man who seeks to subjugate time and money and thinks more about how to feed his family is pathologically afraid of poverty.

    Women.On the one hand, why be afraid of them? And who will admit it. However, in everyone there is a subconscious fear of being misunderstood, rejected, unpopular ... And yes ... they sometimes behave in such a strange way ... they speak in that very hateful tone of “advanced women”. It has long been no secret that in the presence of a woman, a man often feels like a fool. And this feeling is very bad. A fear derived from women is the fear of family ties. I don't think any comments are needed here.

    Pass for stingy. A Dagestan man, with rare exceptions, is a priori generous. A dubious quality for the family budget and savings, exceptional luck for a girl who has views of a man. In addition, even a slight rumor between friends that "Maga is a miser" can completely destroy a reputation.

    Be stupid.This is probably where it should have started. After all, here is a statement of fact (well, who is not afraid to be stupid - only a really stupid person) and a wish. There is nothing more shameful for a man than buffoonery.

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